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Trans Mega Thread Seisatsu ## Owner 08/13/24 (Tue) 18:48:49 No.8376[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

Trans Mega Thread!

So, let's try something here.

Frequently a trans-related topic comes up in a thread here in /hikki/, and the thread will quickly get derailed by malicious comments or by the diversion in topic just taking over. There is clearly a lot of interest in discussing trans topics, as well as a lot of unwelcome interest in shutting them down. But they do tend to take over threads either way. So, while we figure out how to handle this from a moderation standpoint, I am going to make a trans discussion mega thread here to contain such conversations. This might end up being permanent. If you find that a thread makes you want to discuss a trans-related topic, make a post here instead.

Rules 6 and 7 are strictly enforced in this thread, and violations will result in longer bans. However, uncomfortable questions are also allowed within reason.

Also if a trans topic starts to derail a thread from now on we may delete those posts.

Also Sei is trans. So I might make some posts in here as well.

Update 11/04/2024: When the conversation in the trans thread veers into whether transness is even a thing that exists, that will be considered an attempt at derailment. This thread isn't for you. It is specifically a containment thread for people who want to talk about transness from the starting assumption that the topic itself and the kind of identity it discusses is valid. Please keep that in mind.

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Anonymous 12/13/24 (Fri) 22:55:52 No.8770

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>>8769
check'n the checker'n

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Welcome to the NHK v2 aka The Rules Seisatsu ## Owner 02/04/16 (Thu) 22:47:24 No.172[Reply]

From now on, the >>>/rec/ board should generally be used for conversations about recovery from NEETism. This is not a hard rule but you are likely to have a better experience.

Seeing as absolutely everyone misread the /hikki/ rules sticky and used it to draw apocalyptic conclusions about the death of all that was good about /n/, here's a less flippant sticky with less room for ambiguity, in the form of a Q&A. We've also made some concessions based on your feedback in thread >>13, which was moved to /sugg/ for being meta.

What is allowed on this board? What is its purpose?
On this board you can discuss and request or give advice regarding NEETism, Hikikomoriism, anxieties and social or mental issues arising from these conditions of living, and things closely related to these topics. If you're content with being a NEET at this stage in your life, that's ok, and you won't get in trouble for saying so. The board's primary focus is self-help and advice regarding these issues. Despite rumors, threads looking for help with suicidal feelings or drug addition are also allowed.

What is not allowed on this board?
* Encouraging others to become NEET.
* Attacking or discouraging others for being NEET.
* Giving or requesting advice on how to enter the NEET lifestyle.
* Encouraging or showcasing drug usage.
* Announcing your planned suicide.
* Helping others to plan or commit suicide.
* Topics not related to the purpose of the board. Such topics will be moved.
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Seisatsu ## Owner 03/10/19 (Sun) 20:18:51 No.5517

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Anonymous 12/12/24 (Thu) 10:50:34 No.8761 [Reply]

As an incel I will soon be 30 years old, I am tired of waiting and struggling, no woman will come into my life, and deep down I know it. It would be better to focus on me, my health, my hobbies and my personal growth. Sometimes life is like that, you have to be strong and conscious, but you are still alive and you can still enjoy things.
A cybernetic hug.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pmgb5yVroBc&list=PL1NCNBOfO0imJqZnRTzjDWUjxB9-9_54t&index=11

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 12/12/24 (Thu) 13:03:13 No.8762

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do you find it helpful to label yourself as an incel?

Anonymous 12/12/24 (Thu) 19:43:52 No.8763

>>8762
I dont' know what I am, I say incel for say something.

Anonymous 12/13/24 (Fri) 00:11:48 No.8764

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its not pretty, but apparently thats how it must be

Anonymous 12/13/24 (Fri) 14:47:36 No.8768

>>8761
Man, if you not find the girl for love you, have focus in the things you like, is best thing for do now.

Anonymous 12/14/24 (Sat) 02:30:03 No.8771

>>8761
To be honest, I stopped caring about people and relationships or women since I locked myself away from the world. It's very lonely, but sometimes it's peaceful, dealing with people is always a lot of work, you fight for them, you do everything for someone, and in the end it ends like all things, and you still end up hurt and all the memories they become painful and all the work you did for them was in vain.

Thinking like this is extremely pessimistic and lonely, but it is a way for you to never get hurt again and perhaps, with great luck, be "happy".

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hey! Void 05/21/22 (Sat) 20:12:11 No.7197 [Reply]

I just found this board and couldn't feel more comfy navigating it. I'm honestly glad I found a semi-active /hikki/ board to scroll through too.

Most NEET boards I find are rlly slow or have gone defunct.

How's your day going anon?
When was the last time you went outside?
>I went outside for the first time in maybe like 5 weeks for the sole reason to get parts to fix my shitty laptop.

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Void 06/04/22 (Sat) 14:10:48 No.7233

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>>7224
Late.city is pretty cozy, though i've heard others voice their concerns abt the slow traffic.

>>7222
I highly recommend putting on a comfy podcast as some bg noise, personally helped me alot with my anxiety.

Maybe put it at a lower volume/cover one ear instead of both if you're scared someone might try to cause trouble, and remember, always carry any form of self-defense weapon.

Anonymous 06/07/22 (Tue) 08:42:18 No.7238

>>7225
Their rules are pretty restrictive but even so there's a lot of activity and good discussion there. I don't agree with all their rules but they have given the board a unique culture and kept the eternal september of 2016 at bay which I appreciate a lot.
>>7228
Sup friend, what's your favorite(s) fizzy drink? Mine's venom killer taipan.
>>7233
/late/ is slow but it's active, and it's culture is the closest I've come to finding another /doomer/ since the great exodus.

Anonymous 11/30/24 (Sat) 08:06:39 No.8733

>>7197
Im doing pretty well
i was out for a convention a little while ago it was so draining but everyone loved my cosplay

Anonymous 12/04/24 (Wed) 00:22:45 No.8741

>>7197
>How's your day going anon?
I recently unlocked my Playstation 3 with HEN. And I'm very depressed, it's totally unstable, the applications won't open forcing me to restart by unplugging it. And while I'm downloading games, XMD simply freezes, forcing me to do the same process as mentioned. It's horrible, I should have used CFW, they say it's better. Anyway, I feel like my PS3 is going to die a few weeks ago seeing its condition.

Sometimes it happens that HEN doesn't enable it either.

>When was the last time you went outside?
It's been 4 months. I just went out for a job interview.

Anonymous 12/13/24 (Fri) 13:35:11 No.8767

>>8741
Which PS3 model do you have? The newer ones aren't capable of CFW unfortunately

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Anonymous 09/17/24 (Tue) 23:56:31 No.8540 [Reply]

Am I allowed to shamelessly plug my NEET life blog here?

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Anonymous 09/19/24 (Thu) 11:24:09 No.8547

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>>8544
Well, you can try writing about the media you are usually consuming. Anything but being idle to help your head feeling productive with a nice hobby I guess.

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 09/20/24 (Fri) 06:54:57 No.8549

are you the neet life magazine guy?

Anonymous 09/20/24 (Fri) 07:18:46 No.8550

>>8549
nah, just a guy who used to post here. decided to revive my old blog from years ago as just something to do.

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 09/20/24 (Fri) 08:10:07 No.8551

>>8550
oh ok, good that guy was annoying.

nicotine 12/13/24 (Fri) 10:28:55 No.8765

Bumping to shill my blog again

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essential and ideal tech for NEET & HIKI Anonymous 12/25/23 (Mon) 06:42:20 No.7914 [Reply][Last 50 Posts]

must have and ideal tech setup for neets and hiki.
to start things off, id have to say
-desktop PC
-backup HDD or SSD
-laptop
-2nd monitor for laptop
-CRT for retro games and films
-2nd computer or 2nd laptop for use as media server
-minifridge
-comfortable chair or recliner
-VR
-steam deck
-decent speakers
-mechanical keyboard thatll last
-headphones

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Anonymous 11/05/24 (Tue) 14:31:32 No.8667

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>>8666
Well apparently it's good for your back.

Anonymous 11/06/24 (Wed) 13:49:09 No.8668

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>>8605

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 11/06/24 (Wed) 13:54:55 No.8669

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>>8663
>waow!!! this your puter?
no.
>>8666
im a hapa satan.
>>8668
very cool.

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 12/06/24 (Fri) 15:38:46 No.8751

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in my search for a comfy chair i bought a recliner, now while i do love the recliner it's simply not optimal for playing vidya in, which is a massive fucken bummer.
so im gonna get one of these.
also attached as mentioned here >>>/ot/27486 watching watchmen ultimate cut n playing vidya.

last but not least im hoping christmas brings me more tech.

Anonymous 12/11/24 (Wed) 15:34:35 No.8758

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Steam Deck is comfy and I love it, just wish I had something a bit smaller for on the go playing but I love just how much power the steam deck has and how it can run everything I need it to.

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Draw your room Anonymous 12/22/22 (Thu) 14:09:50 No.7570 [Reply]

Could be a floorplan, 1st person, or anything

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Anonymous 06/22/23 (Thu) 08:01:26 No.7728

>>7725
Please say hi to the guy outside your window for me.

Anonymous 06/22/23 (Thu) 16:30:14 No.7729

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>>7728

Anonymous 06/23/23 (Fri) 12:55:41 No.7730

>>7725
prolly be good for a fangame tbh

Anonymous 01/10/24 (Wed) 06:58:33 No.7953

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here's mine

Anonymous 11/27/24 (Wed) 03:33:01 No.8720

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I am a very lucky girl

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Anonymous 11/20/24 (Wed) 00:29:46 No.8698 [Reply]

oh my god i start getting my GED tmrw and i think i have to go in person… oh my god i was not prepared for that plot twist fuck oh my god !!! i haven't left my house in literally two years. exposure therapy i guess maybe so this is a good thing but i am stressed out at this and i'm breaking out in acne and now i look absolutely repulsive and a monster but i do not care about that !!! i need help on how to maintain composure and not go into a panic attack in public any tips anything just a single word like nice something please pls plsp ls

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 11/20/24 (Wed) 03:56:56 No.8699

try listening to music, and focus on that.

Anonymous 11/20/24 (Wed) 22:53:33 No.8700

I hope it went okay if you've already gone. Calming ost from a favourite game/movue/show/whatever helps me when I go outside. Or a podcast or something, can help to have something else to focus on.
Take things slow and be kind to yourself as best you can

Anonymous 11/24/24 (Sun) 20:42:46 No.8710

>>8698
How'd it go OP? Hope you're doing well.

Anonymous 11/25/24 (Mon) 02:06:29 No.8712

>>8699
>>8700
>>8710
heart emojis for all of u !
i didn't go because the teacher wasn't going to be in class for the rest of the week. i go in tomorrow on monday. i've had more time to think about it than i would've like to have. maybe i'm making this a bigger deal than what it is. a new kind of stress i'm experiencing maybe. the stress of responsibility that everyone feels. or maybe i'm not making a bigger deal than what this is because it is that big of a deal… i mean this is a pivotal moment that'll help me become a true person rather than the myth i am. i'm engulfed in this nervousness but maybe that will disappear when i'm there. some advice i've got was to pretend that it's a dream or to pretend that i'm invisible. i thought that would be a feeling to fight than to embrace. perhaps i'll try that.
sorry for the yap idk i'm like soooooo anxious but thank u three for the replies

Anonymous 11/25/24 (Mon) 05:56:55 No.8713

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>>8698
don't worry about the acne OP. that's entirely going to go away in a few weeks, what won't go away is the payoff from the efforts you're putting in right now to better yourself. do your best!! if you're still freaking out while outside tomorrow just remember to ground yourself and be as in the moment as you can. try just listening and observing whatever sounds are around you in the world outside to keep the thoughts at bay, and remember to keep yourself hydrated and as physically comfortable as you can be because you'll undoubtedly have a lot of mental stuff to deal with already. physical is more than half the battle ok!! I've been there, you get better at this stuff the more often you do it and you'll feel so proud that you did. if you don't, there's always the next time but don't think like that yet! you can do this!
also if you have trouble sleeping tonight just remember that it's better to at least lay around in bed to let your body rest even if you don't manage to get a lot of sleep. try to think positively and how cool it'll be to get the GED in the future! sincerely rooting for you anon

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Community Anonymous 11/19/24 (Tue) 02:54:54 No.8696 [Reply]

I have a question: would anyone here be interested in making a small group chat or group somewhere (could be discord, Skype, etc) with other similar people to vent and talk about interests away from all the incel/woman talk? I'm sick of talking to people online who just want to talk about women, it gets boring and gay. I was a bit confused about the rules on here around discord stuff, but my discord is dukkhafriend123. I'm a neet from Brisbane, Aus. I also play guitar and would be interested in making stuff maybe with people.

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 11/19/24 (Tue) 05:54:33 No.8697

if you want to shill your server once its made there's a designated shilling thread on >>>/ot/

Anonymous 11/21/24 (Thu) 00:58:56 No.8701

I'd potentially be interested. It'd be nice to talk to people about common interests and other things besides the incel stuff. I hope you don't mind but I sent you a discord friend request just in case you decide to make one so I can keep informed.

Anonymous 11/21/24 (Thu) 04:14:13 No.8703

>>8697
Thanks friend, maybe I'll check out the discords on there and see if I can find any people to talk to.

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 11/21/24 (Thu) 09:43:38 No.8705

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>>8701
agreed.
>>8703
no problem.

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Channing Tatum 12/10/17 (Sun) 03:13:55 No.4155 [Reply]

To be hikkikomori is one of the highest forms of hedonism and selfishness. Especially if you rely on parents or flatmates for financial aid.

Some might contest that being a shut-in need isn't a conscious choice, that it's a result of environmental circumstances and mental illness, yet I still see people here who romanticise the lifestyle.

For a good few years, I have followed the culture of this board and others like it. I have seen the various IRC channels, discords and skype groups that have originated from this place, and I have come to the conclusion that this board ultimately promotes an anti-social attitude instead of discouraging and helping people abstain from it.

Most of you are lazy and are attempting to rationalise a piggish lifestyle.

Whaddaya think?

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Anonymous 08/21/24 (Wed) 00:59:28 No.8479

>>4161
7 months lol, fuck off

Anonymous 10/30/24 (Wed) 03:58:29 No.8646

>>7951
Hope you get kicked off ssi you lazy degen(HIKINEET SITE (USER WAS BANNED FOR THIS POST))

Anonymous 11/09/24 (Sat) 22:52:38 No.8676

>>7951
I like you anon, you seem wise. Newfag here, but was there ever a time before this board became overrun by holier-than-thou types and nahtzees? When it was just people who had become neet one way or another and were trying to get along?

mari 11/12/24 (Tue) 13:56:15 No.8688

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if you say that i think you've just wasted your time judging boards through your bias when you could actually study psychiatry, psychology and sociology.

now, don't get me wrong. i agree that it is unhealthy and undeniably selfish to make others pay for your self destruction.

but mental disorders are EXACTLY that. having an undesired condition - often because you were raised by the wrong environmen - that makes you do bad things to yourself and others even if you don't want to.

it's like you're telling someone with pneumonia to breathe well just because YOU are perfectly healthy. of course, pneumonia is treatable and curable, hikkikomori is as well. but both take time, money, energy. it is not gonna happen instantly, no matter how much you yell at the sick to get better already. you're just verbally abusing them for something they literally can't do. in other words, you're being petty and irrational.

Anonymous 11/13/24 (Wed) 00:40:58 No.8690

>>8688
well said

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