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Trans Mega Thread Seisatsu ## Owner 08/13/24 (Tue) 18:48:49 No.8376[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

Trans Mega Thread!

So, let's try something here.

Frequently a trans-related topic comes up in a thread here in /hikki/, and the thread will quickly get derailed by malicious comments or by the diversion in topic just taking over. There is clearly a lot of interest in discussing trans topics, as well as a lot of unwelcome interest in shutting them down. But they do tend to take over threads either way. So, while we figure out how to handle this from a moderation standpoint, I am going to make a trans discussion mega thread here to contain such conversations. This might end up being permanent. If you find that a thread makes you want to discuss a trans-related topic, make a post here instead.

Rules 6 and 7 are strictly enforced in this thread, and violations will result in longer bans. However, uncomfortable questions are also allowed within reason.

Also if a trans topic starts to derail a thread from now on we may delete those posts.

Also Sei is trans. So I might make some posts in here as well.

Update 11/04/2024: When the conversation in the trans thread veers into whether transness is even a thing that exists, that will be considered an attempt at derailment. This thread isn't for you. It is specifically a containment thread for people who want to talk about transness from the starting assumption that the topic itself and the kind of identity it discusses is valid. Please keep that in mind.

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Anonymous 10/19/25 (Sun) 23:33:21 No.9821

>>9743
where is that excerpt from?

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Welcome to the NHK v2 aka The Rules Seisatsu ## Owner 02/04/16 (Thu) 22:47:24 No.172[Reply]

From now on, the >>>/rec/ board should generally be used for conversations about recovery from NEETism. This is not a hard rule but you are likely to have a better experience.

Seeing as absolutely everyone misread the /hikki/ rules sticky and used it to draw apocalyptic conclusions about the death of all that was good about /n/, here's a less flippant sticky with less room for ambiguity, in the form of a Q&A. We've also made some concessions based on your feedback in thread >>13, which was moved to /sugg/ for being meta.

What is allowed on this board? What is its purpose?
On this board you can discuss and request or give advice regarding NEETism, Hikikomoriism, anxieties and social or mental issues arising from these conditions of living, and things closely related to these topics. If you're content with being a NEET at this stage in your life, that's ok, and you won't get in trouble for saying so. The board's primary focus is self-help and advice regarding these issues. Despite rumors, threads looking for help with suicidal feelings or drug addition are also allowed.

What is not allowed on this board?
* Encouraging others to become NEET.
* Attacking or discouraging others for being NEET.
* Giving or requesting advice on how to enter the NEET lifestyle.
* Encouraging or showcasing drug usage.
* Announcing your planned suicide.
* Helping others to plan or commit suicide.
* Topics not related to the purpose of the board. Such topics will be moved.
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Seisatsu ## Owner 03/10/19 (Sun) 20:18:51 No.5517

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Limerance Anonymous 09/02/25 (Tue) 12:17:58 No.9669 [Reply]

Have you guys ever experienced limerance?

I met my limerence object 2 years ago in a rythm game forum, then got closer in a discord server with people of the forum, before this I was the type of person that did not care about relationships or even friendships but being there made me apreciate having someone to talk to even if it was online.

A year passed, I was getting closer to him and slowly fell in love for the first time, every interaction felt euphoric and time without him was pure despair. After confessing due to reasons and getting rejected because of phisical distance we still were friends and I slowly got better at dealing with the addiction (I still struggle tbh)

I have been going to a therapist for this and other reasons, so he is trying to get me to know other autistic people semi-close to where I live
to have more social circles since i only have my LO's and my neighbor.

It's really hard for me to move on since we have so much in common and it feels like we were meant to be except for the phisical distance, I wish one day I find someone like him and can be in a secure relationship

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Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 05:15:15 No.9681

>>9680
hI SKS I LOVE YOU PLEASE SAY HELLO BACK

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 16:18:13 No.9684

>>9681
Hello

sks !DMljOvD5IE 09/11/25 (Thu) 05:48:04 No.9689

>>9681
hi

Anonymous 09/11/25 (Thu) 08:01:48 No.9690

>>9689
hello please marry me sks i love you and then we can commit jihad against the other mods please respond

Anonymous 10/25/25 (Sat) 14:29:19 No.9837

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OP here, he has confessed to me, im very happy

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Anonymous 10/24/25 (Fri) 10:41:41 No.9832 [Reply]

I don't consider myself an hikikomori but It's so fucking hard to Go outside, the thought of It makes me dread the next fucking day. but i do Go outside, i have friends. i Just feel like im ungrateful

Anonymous 10/25/25 (Sat) 03:19:39 No.9836

>>9832
esl

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Anonymous 10/23/25 (Thu) 02:25:18 No.9829 [Reply]

Developed a crush on one of the social workers.

Anonymous 10/23/25 (Thu) 03:59:47 No.9830

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Also realized that I've been suffering from depersonalization for the past 15 years. I tried to explain it to my teacher but I couldn't figure out how to describe it. Read the DSM and some psychology books at the time but didn't find anything that resembled it. I think this is it.

Anonymous 10/23/25 (Thu) 10:43:29 No.9831

>>9830

nothingburger

Anonymous 10/25/25 (Sat) 02:58:45 No.9834

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Changed my mind. I like the other social worker more. She is my crush now.

Anonymous 10/25/25 (Sat) 03:01:04 No.9835

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We went shopping, cleaning, and working on computer stuff today. She is my crush now.

Anonymous 10/26/25 (Sun) 01:08:54 No.9838

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Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 11:41:18 No.9724 [Reply]

i got a job at domininjas and the online training sucks

like i get physically exhausted just thinking about it

i mean i want to work to have something to do and to get money but it feels like im getting aged upwards 10 years every minute i spend staring at the course. like the guy on the carousel in something wicked this way comes by ray bradbury

it also really really scares me that this is a glimpse into the standard level of enjoyment i'll be feeling for the rest of my life. work is hell, and i doubt i'll ever find something fun and worth doing that also gets me fulfillment and money. i wish i could study but most major colleges don't like my kind of person very much and i tried going to a shitty backwater one and was tempted to shank the principal so theres that

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Anonymous 09/28/25 (Sun) 22:34:17 No.9733

>>9732
omg sks haiiiiiiiii

yeah i'm not expecting much but the guy that the government pays to tolerate me because they think im retarded said that he would play danganronpa trigger happy havoc if i stuck to the job for 3 weeks so i really got to do it

it might be marginally less excruciating than what you're describing because im going to be a delivery driver, i already mountain bike and ride my bike around so hopefully it's not too different from that. but i am kind of worried that it won't even do me any good on the resume in the future. honestly between being miserable generally, repping, and having literally no actual friends, it's really hard to parse the idea that i will basically never be happy, like, ever. sopranos_smoking.gif

sks !DMljOvD5IE 10/04/25 (Sat) 01:00:39 No.9749

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>>9733
Honestly, while delivery driver isn't necessarily the most experience filled job, you can basically put on your resume that you have customer service experience and willingness to travel for work. You can also fluff it up a bit and say you have experience driving for a work place environment and you know your way around the town/city. Employers like with you phrase it like that. Hell one of things that got me my current job was experience with DoorDash of all things.

Anonymous 10/04/25 (Sat) 13:35:29 No.9751

>>9749
what is your current job sks????? iwanna know… also which danganronpa character is your favourite

Anonymous 10/21/25 (Tue) 14:26:42 No.9822

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ok update ive started delivering piss a… its nice having money i guess. depending on what sks thinks i should get ill either get a tsr box or the doctor who precons. or maybe i'll save my money. who knows.

but honestly having some semblance of routine back in my life has only served to make things feel by contrast more depressing and banal than before. its really scary to think that i'll never actually be happy. i think things would be a lot easier if i had some friends, but i don't really like socialising outside of card games all that much anyway, and i have a really hard time connecting with people if i don't a) have a common interest or b) i can't talk to them one-on-one. honestly i think having a girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever would really help but i think real people are kind of icky and there would automatically be the expectation of romantic or sexual escalation. plus outside of anime, doctor who, or danganronpa fanfiction, having a waifu or hasubando seems really corny and not actually at all fulfilling

i'll try going back to school or college next year, even if i will stick out like a sore thumb. but seeing how little difference having a job has made, i doubt learning or socialising will do much, either.

any advice? i would really love to know if there's literally any point in keeping my hopes up or if everything is just gonna be this shit forever.

Anonymous 10/22/25 (Wed) 13:51:56 No.9828

>>9822
i also just genuinely really hate my life and i don't like myself enough to fix it

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Anonymous 10/09/25 (Thu) 21:31:25 No.9769 [Reply]

I turned 30 earlier this year. Birthdays are always highly melancholic for me, as it simply means that I'm one year older and one year closer to dying. However, my 30th birthday is one that I've always especially dreaded. I've always felt like, once I turn 30, I won't be young anymore. I'm truly an adult, whether I feel like one or not. But what does it even mean to be an adult anyways? Quite frankly, I don't want anything to do with what society tells me "adults" are supposed to do. I don't want to get married or have kids. I don't want to be a debt slave and work a job that I hate so that I can spend the rest of my life paying rent to a landlord (or paying off a mortgage). I don't want to partake in the meaningless rat race. I want something more, but I know that there really is nothing more. Life is an endless abyss with no purpose that we were all born to slave away and die in. I really don't know how anyone with a functioning brain can live in this world and not want to kill themselves.

Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 06:34:57 No.9772

i found some pleasure playing the piano, but idk, is just me, tomorrow who knows, maybe i will hate myself once again

Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 08:04:00 No.9773

>>9772

There really isn't anything that I enjoy, to be perfectly honest.

Anonymous 10/17/25 (Fri) 22:35:35 No.9820

Move to the countryside and live off the land as a hermit. Be helpful to your neighbors and be happy. That's my dream ay least. Minimal interactions, just people to think of me and say "Oh yeah, that guy. He's alright."

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Anonymous 10/12/25 (Sun) 04:20:00 No.9790 [Reply]

I really wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life

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Anonymous 10/14/25 (Tue) 03:38:37 No.9803

>>9791
Elite level reaction image

Anonymous 10/14/25 (Tue) 11:51:33 No.9805

Anonymous 10/14/25 (Tue) 16:24:52 No.9807

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i feel like some posts here are aimed at me but i cant tell why. its racking my brains as i try to understand the possible reasons obvious or not. most likely giving too much importanse
>>9791

Anonymous 10/16/25 (Thu) 18:27:04 No.9817

wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life

Anonymous 10/17/25 (Fri) 15:52:39 No.9819

sisters suck, but the friends of your sister are fun, theyd spoon with me, and hug and kiss me.

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Anonymous 10/09/25 (Thu) 06:34:14 No.9762[Reply]

I always hear that women are supposedly more emotional than men, but I can't feel emotions. At all. I have absolutely no emotional response to anything. Whether someone is complimenting me, insulting me, or even outright threatening me, I always have the same response: no response whatsoever. I do not feel joy or pleasure, nor do I feel sadness, anger, fear, or anything else. I can't think of a single time when I've ever cried, not counting when I was a newborn. I didn't even feel anything when my own father killed himself in front of me when I was a child.

What is wrong with me?

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Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 07:37:00 No.9811

What the fuck happened to this site? This used to be the only imageboard with a civil, mature, and respectful community. A thread like this on here would have never attracted such bitter incel nastiness in 2012.

Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 09:20:20 No.9813

>>9811
>PICKMEPICKMEPICKMEPICKME

NO FUN ALLOWED some retard mod 10/15/25 (Wed) 14:26:45 No.9814

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As much as I enjoy watching a trashfire, this is supposed to be a somewhat serious board.

Discuss the OP in a civil manner or the thread gets locked.

Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 23:11:47 No.9815

>>9814
>PICKMEPICKMEPICKMEPICKME

Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 23:29:45 No.9816

>>9813
>>9815
I've only ever seen loser women use this term

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Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 07:38:53 No.9812 [Reply]

Is anyone else here completely alone?

I don't mean just no gf.

>no friends

>no family

>no online friends

>no pets

>no goldfish

Literally nothing.

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