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Welcome to the NHK v2 aka The Rules Seisatsu ## Owner 02/04/16 (Thu) 22:47:24 No.172[Reply]

From now on, the >>>/rec/ board should generally be used for conversations about recovery from NEETism. This is not a hard rule but you are likely to have a better experience.

Seeing as absolutely everyone misread the /hikki/ rules sticky and used it to draw apocalyptic conclusions about the death of all that was good about /n/, here's a less flippant sticky with less room for ambiguity, in the form of a Q&A. We've also made some concessions based on your feedback in thread >>13, which was moved to /sugg/ for being meta.

What is allowed on this board? What is its purpose?
On this board you can discuss and request or give advice regarding NEETism, Hikikomoriism, anxieties and social or mental issues arising from these conditions of living, and things closely related to these topics. If you're content with being a NEET at this stage in your life, that's ok, and you won't get in trouble for saying so. The board's primary focus is self-help and advice regarding these issues. Despite rumors, threads looking for help with suicidal feelings or drug addition are also allowed.

What is not allowed on this board?
* Encouraging others to become NEET.
* Attacking or discouraging others for being NEET.
* Giving or requesting advice on how to enter the NEET lifestyle.
* Encouraging or showcasing drug usage.
* Announcing your planned suicide.
* Helping others to plan or commit suicide.
* Topics not related to the purpose of the board. Such topics will be moved.
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Seisatsu ## Owner 03/10/19 (Sun) 20:18:51 No.5517

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Anonymous 04/09/26 (Thu) 01:12:31 No.10299 [Reply]

how does one achieve this?

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Anonymous 04/09/26 (Thu) 22:28:09 No.10304

Yiffing in hell.

Anonymous 04/09/26 (Thu) 23:17:49 No.10305

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you're all kind of unhelpful

Anonymous 04/10/26 (Fri) 03:30:05 No.10306

>>10300
>>10302
And a furry ultra hyper fixation with an insane social media game sense

Anonymous 04/22/26 (Wed) 22:55:11 No.10313

Depends what exactly you're referring to for "this."

If you mean "get a fursuit", mainly just saving enough money to get either a prebuilt one or commission.

If you're curious about hanging out in furry spaces, I could offer some info. I don't know any specific generic ones but I'd be happy to provide info. There might be a local furry group on Discord, Telegram, etc.

There's too many cynical irony-poisoned people out there who are afraid of being "cringe". Especially in most imageboards.

Anonymous 04/25/26 (Sat) 12:36:53 No.10315

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>>10313
i want to age regress while simultaneously escaping the rot of my human form. i cannot fucking breathe for how revolted humanity makes me. every online space i could possibly have an interest in is host to myriad parasites in zoomer jeetoid form.

thank you for the advice. what species is your fursona? here's mine. he's a bay lynx and he cries and shits himself, just like me. insert the fucking vent post jak where it's wearing a tshirt that says "i'm a sad lonely faggot here's some embarrasing information about me please don't bully me with it".

i'm so tired man

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Anonymous 03/15/25 (Sat) 11:02:07 No.9338 [Reply]

What's even the point anymore? I've basically given up. I've lost so many opportunities; some of them my fault, a lot of them pure circumstance. But how much more do I have left to give?

People are unfriendly. All of those that share my interests are either autistics or just plain rude. I got called "terminally online" for asking for some normfag's discord handle (a site that I hate).

There's nothing to do around the city. Everything costs money. The streets are grimy and filled with the homeless. Housing costs keep going up. Nobody cares. The footpaths are choked with hideous invasive flowering weeds. The concrete is cracked and dirty. The infrastructure is accessible only to cars.

Why bother? There's not much point in leaving the house. But it's not much better inside than out. I try using mainstream socials, but everybody there is either unable to take criticism unless it goes with the flow of the community's zeitgeist, or is an American retard. And decent sites move too slowly to keep me occupied.

Why try? I'm enrolled for a once-a-week college course, starting this following week. But I don't see why I should care. I'll either do something stupid and get myself kicked out, or somebody else will.

I remember getting really sad a few years ago about the realisation that everything is ephemeral. Everything will eventually decay into entropy. I try to think about it every so often, but it's hardly motivating. What difference does it make if I try or not? Nobody will ever remember me either way.

It rained for a few days a little while ago.

I miss the petrichor.

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Anonymous 02/01/26 (Sun) 20:35:57 No.10210

>>10206
>>10208
>>10209
You're into incest we get it.

Anonymous 02/02/26 (Mon) 05:32:42 No.10212

>>10210

You DON'T get it. Misery.

Anonymous 02/03/26 (Tue) 11:48:20 No.10219

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Went back to school. Hope it doesn't suck donkey dong.

Anonymous 02/23/26 (Mon) 07:24:26 No.10240

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It finally happened. It was only 40 dollars! I can pass on to the afterlife now

Anonymous 04/20/26 (Mon) 06:50:17 No.10311

>And decent sites move too slowly to keep me occupied.
What "decent sites" are you talking?
I also need something to make me occupied, even if it move too slow

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scizoid personality disorder. Anonymous 12/08/21 (Wed) 19:10:09 No.6969 [Reply]

just figured out I suffer from this shit, and it really explains a lot of the shit I went through and the hellish state is trapped in now. so I was wondering if any of you anons are suffering from the same shit?

but before it's asked no schizoid personality disorder is not related to schizophrenia.

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Anonymous 09/23/24 (Mon) 16:31:52 No.8558

I made a forum for schizoids as an experiment, come make some posts if that interests you:
https://schizoid.boards.net

I know about the chats and communities thread but I'd like people in THIS thread to see, and that one's mostly spam containment anyway.

Anonymous 04/20/25 (Sun) 21:37:31 No.9447

>>8558
Womp womp.

Anonymous 04/04/26 (Sat) 22:20:51 No.10297

I think there's a lot of overlap between BPD and SzPD, in that borderlines who're cognizant of what a bother they can be and how they can ruin their lives clam up to where their symptoms could have them mistaken for a schizoid.

Anonymous 04/05/26 (Sun) 08:03:58 No.10298

i was misdiagnosed with schizoid personality disorder for several years only to recently find out it was just autism + a depressive disorder. it's actually been a little relieving after so long.

Anonymous 04/14/26 (Tue) 22:09:38 No.10308

>>10297
That's exactly my situation, it feels untreatable.

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Glitch in The Matrix Anonymous 04/07/24 (Sun) 14:29:50 No.8054 [Reply]

Does anyone feel fundamentally different from other people?

Like there's an insurmountable wall separating you from everyone else that you won't ever be able to overcome. Even with all the riches and a perfect life on the surface there would still be distance.

Ever since I was a kid I was the "weird kid." At home I was an unwanted child. It really just feels like I'm not supposed to exist, but do anyway, as some glitch in the matrix. And all the forces in the universe are desperately trying to bug fix my existence.

I feel very little loyalty towards the world, humanity, or society.

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!Z/SLUT.SHE 02/17/25 (Mon) 23:05:27 No.9281

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>>8054
neurodivergence

Anonymous 02/20/25 (Thu) 04:07:27 No.9288

Yeah, people just conclude I'm strange with minimal interaction but it's whatever, I'm at a point in life where being social is very tiring so I just don't try anymore.

Anonymous 02/21/25 (Fri) 01:15:46 No.9290

This is called anderssein.

Anonymous 03/23/25 (Sun) 14:34:12 No.9366

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It's more as if I understand that they have the capacity to sniff out intruders on the same limb that they enjoy in strangling outsiders with overwhelming indifference, so I play into my end of the bargain and steer clear of the tracks. I don't need to incapacitate myself with the writhing hivemind and their flesh-eaten orgies, and they don't feel noxious at the thought of being simpatico with me.

Anonymous 04/14/26 (Tue) 01:36:43 No.10307

yeah. it feels like a joke hearing about how we're social animals and need community to thrive, when you know that you're missing some fundamental component that enables everyone else to get along fine with each other.

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Anonymous 01/30/26 (Fri) 04:42:24 No.10189 [Reply]

does anyone have any advice on not talking? like, on how to just not speak? i know everyone dislikes when i talk, and joker persona 5 is pretty cool, so is there a simple way i can just not talk without people thinking there's something wrong? also, i'm looking for advice on how to avoid audibly reacting to things. i'm such a fucking autist that i basically have to comment on something interesting that i see, even if i'm just talking to myself.

thoughts?

(yes i know phone filename but im too lazy to get out of bed and go to my computer)

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Anonymous 01/31/26 (Sat) 09:06:03 No.10197

>>10196
(pictur. is me) pleas be Nice

Anonymous 03/11/26 (Wed) 21:03:26 No.10278

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>>10196

Anonymous 03/11/26 (Wed) 21:30:41 No.10281

>>10278
ami ma d? Woah

Anonymous 03/30/26 (Mon) 14:54:54 No.10295

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I think you can't just stop talking. You can reduce the frequency of your speech, but you can't just stop to talk. That's the odd of the life in a society, and the odd of be a social being. If you aren't totally outside of society, you will need talk with people.
> i know everyone dislikes when i talk
What you talk about when you actually talk? Do you offend people? Do you start to say random stuff completely unrelated with the actual topic of the conversation? Try to watch what you talk, and the way you talk (people are can get really mad when you slap harsh truths in their faces, for example).
> and joker persona 5 is pretty cool
Maybe say random stuff completely unrelated to the actual topic is one of your problems.
> i'm such a fucking autist that i basically have to comment on something interesting that i see, even if i'm just talking to myself.
You make me think that when you talk with people, you can't resist the urge to start a long speech about your favorite anime/game/character. Your listener may not know anything about what you say, and what should be a nice conversation become a endless monologue.
Answer people when they ask you something. Talk about your favorite stuff with someone who knows at least a little about. And don't prolong your conversations.

Anonymous 03/30/26 (Mon) 20:49:49 No.10296

>>10295
>You make me think that when you talk with people, you can't resist the urge to start a long speech about your favorite anime/game/character. Your listener may not know anything about what you say, and what should be a nice conversation become a endless monologue.

this has absolutely nothing to with what i said but sure i guess

>That's the odd of the life in a society

esl much?

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my thread Anonymous 02/08/26 (Sun) 11:53:32 No.10226 [Reply]

i love being egocentric

i think im getting kicked out of the college for delinquents becasue i did weird drawings

what do you guys think of new danganronpa game

https://youtu.be/3YO1U9fZAQE

what do you guys think of my room

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Anonymous 03/23/26 (Mon) 17:13:42 No.10293

>>10292
Would lay by his side and touch tips

Anonymous 03/23/26 (Mon) 22:49:33 No.10294

>>10293
wow thank you. i suppose

tonights the night Anonymous 04/16/26 (Thu) 13:25:46 No.10309

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i've come to the absolutely miserable conclusion that i have a diaper fetish. best practice here would be to support my local businesses and take a trip to the hardware store. however, i may be getting commissioned to draw niche furry porn soon, and, on top of that, faggamer still hasn't restocked the poniko and uboa plush set. i need to complete my herculean tasks before i can pass on to the afterlife.

also, i feel like no matter what i do my art style just isn't cute enough to be erotic. it's very scratchy and pooner-esque which i don't really like, but i did this drawing of that really attractive bird from lorwyn eclipsed, and i feel like i've improved to at least some extent.

Anonymous 04/17/26 (Fri) 12:55:50 No.10310

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>>10292
>>10309
Dont think of your lineart too much. It's really cute and your coloring is really nice! :)

Anonymous 04/24/26 (Fri) 10:22:39 No.10314

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>>10310
wow thank you so much for your kind words. i've actually been stressing a lot over the past week because i've had really bad art block and i've been worried about disappointing my commissioner. i got in touch with them today and they said not to worry so your encouragement on top of that has really helped :)

i've been dogsitting for a schizo hippie antivaxxer freak (i fucking hate dogs ;-;) for the past few weeks and i cannot wait to get home. this little inbred chihuahua dust mote thing shit all over himself and i think i'm gonna have to cut the poop out of his fur. the other dog is a retarded elderly husky who sheds all over the place like jesus h christ the floor here is MORE HAIR THAN FLOOR

also i brought a ygo deck set on a whim and one of the social workers that my cuck government pays to tolerate me so i don't hang myself used to play the game so hopefully i can get into that soon. i like the art style a lot more than mtjeet and there's apparently a few cool furry archetypes, so i'm pretty interested.

went to a seahorse sanctuary today and there was a cuddlefish, very cool animal. liked him more than the actual seahorses

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Anonymous 03/21/26 (Sat) 06:35:10 No.10289 [Reply]

Employment is a given thing so being a needy or not is not one s choice, but the amaterasu's capacity to use a ruler to measure its own finger.now translate that into jewish

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Anonymous 04/14/25 (Mon) 01:39:53 No.9392 [Reply]

Do things just get better? I feel like my entire life has been some kind of transitionary period. I've always just been waiting for the next thing to happen, the next house, the next open room, the next apartment, the next space. I genuinely feel like I have no concept of setting down and feeling secure. I also just feel like I'm at the complete whims of my family, they tell me what I have to do, they expect me to do this, go to college, get a good job, they expect me to get married and have kids for them. I haven't even felt happy first. I just want to live for myself, if I can't be on my own, I don't want to even live at all.

I've felt so dejected from drawing at all. I've just kinda ran away from my friends online, I can't seem to do anything.

Please tell me that some of you guys feel the same way, because I have no idea what to do.

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Anonymous 12/29/25 (Mon) 08:16:36 No.10115

Hello anon, I'm a wanderer. On the streets and the internet. There's nothing that gets simpler in neetdom and your parents will perish in due time.
My real story began when I understood that they could never sustain me longterm in any sense and merely supported me halfheartedly to avoid loneliness and each other. Its a horrible cop out and the result is no less better when you're alone.
To me, and likely not many others, I would assume its not a great ending. Its a simple one of enduring what might be and will happen.
To me, I endured the death and accepted that I am no longer accepted into normalcy yet I filter between acceptable and await the death of manners. There will be an end to me inevitably and it will not be one of a neets death.

Anonymous 12/29/25 (Mon) 15:10:48 No.10116

>>10073
>Most of them ghosted me
Relatable. I've always struggled making friends online

Anonymous 03/11/26 (Wed) 21:29:33 No.10280

>>9392
schizoid

Anonymous 03/14/26 (Sat) 02:34:21 No.10283

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I love Russian culture, and I was thinking of during an immersion program there myself, though unfortunately due to the geopolitical situation with Ukraine, I might not be able to do such things. Hope you find peace and happiness.

Things will get better Anonymous 03/14/26 (Sat) 02:38:04 No.10284

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