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Limerance Anonymous 09/02/25 (Tue) 12:17:58 No.9669 [Reply]

Have you guys ever experienced limerance?

I met my limerence object 2 years ago in a rythm game forum, then got closer in a discord server with people of the forum, before this I was the type of person that did not care about relationships or even friendships but being there made me apreciate having someone to talk to even if it was online.

A year passed, I was getting closer to him and slowly fell in love for the first time, every interaction felt euphoric and time without him was pure despair. After confessing due to reasons and getting rejected because of phisical distance we still were friends and I slowly got better at dealing with the addiction (I still struggle tbh)

I have been going to a therapist for this and other reasons, so he is trying to get me to know other autistic people semi-close to where I live
to have more social circles since i only have my LO's and my neighbor.

It's really hard for me to move on since we have so much in common and it feels like we were meant to be except for the phisical distance, I wish one day I find someone like him and can be in a secure relationship

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Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 05:15:15 No.9681

>>9680
hI SKS I LOVE YOU PLEASE SAY HELLO BACK

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 16:18:13 No.9684

>>9681
Hello

sks !DMljOvD5IE 09/11/25 (Thu) 05:48:04 No.9689

>>9681
hi

Anonymous 09/11/25 (Thu) 08:01:48 No.9690

>>9689
hello please marry me sks i love you and then we can commit jihad against the other mods please respond

Anonymous 10/25/25 (Sat) 14:29:19 No.9837

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OP here, he has confessed to me, im very happy

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Anonymous 10/24/25 (Fri) 10:41:41 No.9832 [Reply]

I don't consider myself an hikikomori but It's so fucking hard to Go outside, the thought of It makes me dread the next fucking day. but i do Go outside, i have friends. i Just feel like im ungrateful

Anonymous 10/25/25 (Sat) 03:19:39 No.9836

>>9832
esl

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Anonymous 10/12/25 (Sun) 04:20:00 No.9790 [Reply]

I really wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life

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Anonymous 10/14/25 (Tue) 03:38:37 No.9803

>>9791
Elite level reaction image

Anonymous 10/14/25 (Tue) 11:51:33 No.9805

I really wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life

Anonymous 10/14/25 (Tue) 16:24:52 No.9807

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i feel like some posts here are aimed at me but i cant tell why. its racking my brains as i try to understand the possible reasons obvious or not. most likely giving too much importanse
>>9791

Anonymous 10/16/25 (Thu) 18:27:04 No.9817

wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life

Anonymous 10/17/25 (Fri) 15:52:39 No.9819

sisters suck, but the friends of your sister are fun, theyd spoon with me, and hug and kiss me.

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Anonymous 10/09/25 (Thu) 06:34:14 No.9762[Reply]

I always hear that women are supposedly more emotional than men, but I can't feel emotions. At all. I have absolutely no emotional response to anything. Whether someone is complimenting me, insulting me, or even outright threatening me, I always have the same response: no response whatsoever. I do not feel joy or pleasure, nor do I feel sadness, anger, fear, or anything else. I can't think of a single time when I've ever cried, not counting when I was a newborn. I didn't even feel anything when my own father killed himself in front of me when I was a child.

What is wrong with me?

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Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 07:37:00 No.9811

What the fuck happened to this site? This used to be the only imageboard with a civil, mature, and respectful community. A thread like this on here would have never attracted such bitter incel nastiness in 2012.

Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 09:20:20 No.9813

>>9811
>PICKMEPICKMEPICKMEPICKME

NO FUN ALLOWED some retard mod 10/15/25 (Wed) 14:26:45 No.9814

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As much as I enjoy watching a trashfire, this is supposed to be a somewhat serious board.

Discuss the OP in a civil manner or the thread gets locked.

Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 23:11:47 No.9815

>>9814
>PICKMEPICKMEPICKMEPICKME

Anonymous 10/15/25 (Wed) 23:29:45 No.9816

>>9813
>>9815
I've only ever seen loser women use this term

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Anonymous 10/04/25 (Sat) 06:33:34 No.9750 [Reply]

What even is fun supposed to feel like? I genuinely cannot think of a single time in my life when I've ever had fun. It's honestly like my brain just isn't wired to feel positive emotions. Nothing is fun. Nothing is enjoyable. Nothing is pleasurable. And, with zero ability to feel joy or pleasure, what reason do I even have to stay alive?

Anonymous 10/04/25 (Sat) 15:05:59 No.9752

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>>9750
It's a whole entire problem that you can't feel positive emotions and you may wanna fix that or not but purpose doesn't need to be tied to fun or enjoyment, not even to happiness.

Find what you're good at.

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Anonymous 08/06/25 (Wed) 23:19:17 No.9637 [Reply]

hey guys can help with some things please 1 stay grounded in reality and not go fucking insane 2 not get panic attacks and intense paralysis and gut pain at merely the thought of getting a job people like everything are fucking gross and frightening for me they just wont leave me alone 3 try think positively i have this feeling im barely worth a thousandth of a cent Thanks

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Anonymous 08/07/25 (Thu) 20:00:35 No.9644

>>9643
Who are you and what is you ageda

Anonymous 08/07/25 (Thu) 20:23:52 No.9646

>>9644
I'm a 21 yo long-time resident of this imageboard, currently jobless and I don't have any agenda in particular. I've had some personal trouble with both 1, 2 and 3 and I've developed some coping strategies, that I could discuss

Anonymous 08/08/25 (Fri) 18:35:51 No.9647

1 Go out everyday for a bit, look out the window often, make sure you talk to at least one person a day (beyond courtesies) IRL
2 Get a easy part time job that you're sure you will do well at even if all other things vary
3 Measure your worth by days left not by days lived

Anonymous 08/09/25 (Sat) 20:25:20 No.9648

>>9644
You still around?

Anonymous 09/25/25 (Thu) 20:45:28 No.9721

>>9648
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfV5kbEq5cE

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finding job Anonymous 06/26/25 (Thu) 10:11:33 No.9537 [Reply]

hi, can someone please help me decide if ita even worth trying to find a job anymore in the UK.this is a big dilemma, i love the uk people qre kind and respectful but im starting to go insane from all the inactivity and job hunting. and i feel ive let myself down for giving up. but i feel like im naturally gravitating towards it

>30
>romanian with settled status
>bsc, masters in IT
>3-4 years experience in IT
>2 in Romania 1 in the UK
>found last job after one whole year of searching but screwed it up
>looking now, barely 5-10 new jobs a day

appreciate any thoughts honest opinions thank you

Anonymous 09/21/25 (Sun) 21:08:26 No.9714

>>9537
Damn, I was genuinely going to help you since I used to be a NEET crying on uboa a few years ago and now have a job I love making good money that's in high demand… but then I read that you were a fucking romanian. Rot and die.

Anonymous 09/21/25 (Sun) 21:56:32 No.9716

>>9714
I'm also romanian and I agree with u

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My birth was a mistake Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 04:49:17 No.9671 [Reply]

Forgive me for my typing this is one of my first times posting here for context my parents were trying to have kids they had five miscarriages before me and my biological mother was a drug addict [opioid addiction] and i born a month early and was addicted to opioids
i think now that in my later teens i think it might have messed me up mentally permanently now that in mentally, my other parent my dad is a good guy but a big normie i feel like i should have never been born i feel like in another timeline if my mother actually changed her life i could have been a dumb normie with friends and a life pls anons help me cope

Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 05:27:58 No.9673

You didn't give a single reason of why you shouldn't have been born. Especially if one of your parents is good as you say.
Even if there is only downsides to your existence at the moment, you're no older than 20, you're waaaaaaaay too young to even know what value your life is gonna have at 30 or 40.
If you wanna be a dumb normie with a life and friends, more power to you, you have plenty of time to redirect your life in that direction. Hope you make it

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 01:30:21 No.9677

The "I feel I should have never been born" got me by surprise. Don't see why you ended up reaching that conclusion.

Anonymous 09/19/25 (Fri) 16:45:40 No.9703

i am sorry you had to go through this. but you couldn't even choose, so it's not fair to say you should have never been born as it's not your fault…

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Workout any from my room? Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 03:14:53 No.9685 [Reply]

I wanna work out because it’s supposed to help with my mental health i don’t own any workout equipment does anyone know any good exercises btw I dont know if this belongs on this board it seems more like a /fit problem but i thought it was my fitting to be in here pls correct me if im wrong thank you

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 16:41:13 No.9686

Check out the website Darebee. Has a lot of free workouts that don't require any equipment. Do the Foundations program first if you haven't worked out in a while/this is your first time working out.

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 16:51:35 No.9687

This isn’t my first working out for the last couple weeks ive been doing 2 reps of 15 push ups Monday through friday and taking a break on weekends thank you so much for the advice your a god send

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 18:46:16 No.9688

thanks :thubsups:

Anonymous 09/11/25 (Thu) 08:36:03 No.9691

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theres no fit on uboachan

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I began watching welcome to the nhk Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 18:55:11 No.9676 [Reply]

Anyone have any anime recommendations like it i’v watched watamote too so any anime like them would be cool

sks !DMljOvD5IE 09/08/25 (Mon) 03:49:38 No.9679

watch gachaman crowds

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 05:36:57 No.9682

What the fuck is gachaman