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Workout any from my room? Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 03:14:53 No.9685 [Reply]

I wanna work out because it’s supposed to help with my mental health i don’t own any workout equipment does anyone know any good exercises btw I dont know if this belongs on this board it seems more like a /fit problem but i thought it was my fitting to be in here pls correct me if im wrong thank you

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 16:41:13 No.9686

Check out the website Darebee. Has a lot of free workouts that don't require any equipment. Do the Foundations program first if you haven't worked out in a while/this is your first time working out.

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 16:51:35 No.9687

This isn’t my first working out for the last couple weeks ive been doing 2 reps of 15 push ups Monday through friday and taking a break on weekends thank you so much for the advice your a god send

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 18:46:16 No.9688

thanks :thubsups:

Anonymous 09/11/25 (Thu) 08:36:03 No.9691

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theres no fit on uboachan

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Limerance Anonymous 09/02/25 (Tue) 12:17:58 No.9669 [Reply]

Have you guys ever experienced limerance?

I met my limerence object 2 years ago in a rythm game forum, then got closer in a discord server with people of the forum, before this I was the type of person that did not care about relationships or even friendships but being there made me apreciate having someone to talk to even if it was online.

A year passed, I was getting closer to him and slowly fell in love for the first time, every interaction felt euphoric and time without him was pure despair. After confessing due to reasons and getting rejected because of phisical distance we still were friends and I slowly got better at dealing with the addiction (I still struggle tbh)

I have been going to a therapist for this and other reasons, so he is trying to get me to know other autistic people semi-close to where I live
to have more social circles since i only have my LO's and my neighbor.

It's really hard for me to move on since we have so much in common and it feels like we were meant to be except for the phisical distance, I wish one day I find someone like him and can be in a secure relationship

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sks !DMljOvD5IE 09/08/25 (Mon) 03:53:36 No.9680

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>It's really hard for me to move on since we have so much in common and it feels like we were meant to be except for the phisical distance, I wish one day I find someone like him and can be in a secure relationship
I've been in this situation before, I think you will find someone else like him or even better in your life. It just takes time, and some energy. It's best not to obsess over him and find others who you can relate to, even if thats easier said than done

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 05:15:15 No.9681

>>9680
hI SKS I LOVE YOU PLEASE SAY HELLO BACK

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 16:18:13 No.9684

>>9681
Hello

sks !DMljOvD5IE 09/11/25 (Thu) 05:48:04 No.9689

>>9681
hi

Anonymous 09/11/25 (Thu) 08:01:48 No.9690

>>9689
hello please marry me sks i love you and then we can commit jihad against the other mods please respond

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I began watching welcome to the nhk Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 18:55:11 No.9676 [Reply]

Anyone have any anime recommendations like it i’v watched watamote too so any anime like them would be cool

sks !DMljOvD5IE 09/08/25 (Mon) 03:49:38 No.9679

watch gachaman crowds

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 05:36:57 No.9682

What the fuck is gachaman

Self Harm Anonymous 06/22/22 (Wed) 10:13:32 No.7283 [Reply]

Anyone here do it? I used to cut myself open, just for the sake of it really, but I regret it a lot because the scars never faded and I'm covered in ugly lines that anyone would be able to tell are from self harming.

You may also post QTs cutting themselves up.

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Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 19:50:45 No.8824

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>>7297
>>7289
Replying to myself just to randomly vent / blog I guess, there's a weird comfort in just saying my thoughts on this board every once in a while. It feels like a lot has changed while nothing has changed in two years. I still go to gym, and I work at that job still and got a small promotion, so I've been able to save up money and visited another country for the first time ever.

I wasn't self harming since this post, until a friend commit suicide in 2023, so I started again. Part of me thought I grew out of it, but I feel like at this point my way of dealing with my emotions has been so unhealthy for so long that I'll never stop doing it, I feel like my emotions are much stronger and linger longer than normal peoples' do, but maybe they don't, and I'm just making excuses. It doesn't help that I think a part of me really likes my scars, like they're a significant part of my history like tattoos or something.

I also recently got very close with a girl, but my insecurities started showing, and I think this made her lose interest in me, so I started cutting again while at work today. I couldn't find anything sharp, so I snapped my plastic ID badge in half and used that, if there's a will there's a way I guess. I need to go to therapy or go on antidepressants or something, but I'm so emotionally closed off from most people that it feels scary to ever be open.

Anonymous 08/18/25 (Mon) 14:23:09 No.9657

I got my ex-girlfriend to cut my back over a week ago.

Anonymous 08/18/25 (Mon) 14:29:10 No.9658

I used to do it but my body started to hurt too much from illness so I decided not to add to it

Anonymous 08/19/25 (Tue) 18:26:37 No.9663

>>9657
What happened between a week ago and now to earn the "ex" title?

Anonymous 09/02/25 (Tue) 15:11:40 No.9670

>>9663
Nothing.

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Anonymous 08/03/25 (Sun) 15:12:40 No.9631 [Reply]

Do you guys have any cool ideas for a source of income, small even? Realized or unrealized. Maybe something you can do from home… or alone…

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Anonymous 08/06/25 (Wed) 12:56:53 No.9636

I've heard of taking pics and selling them as stock photos, it's not much but it's certainly low effort (if you like photography!)

Anonymous 08/10/25 (Sun) 07:42:05 No.9649

>>9636
Realistically, how much could I make from this?

Anonymous 08/10/25 (Sun) 08:54:27 No.9650

>>9649
Not much really. Depends on your strategy though, it would probably be hard to make serious money with it *now*, but if you circumvent stock agencies and go directly to buyers… maybe in the low hundreds (of dollars)

Anonymous 08/13/25 (Wed) 01:19:05 No.9652

I do surveys. Five Surveys and Prime Opinion are all from the same company. they're legit and even gave ACH if you prefer that.

I've recently also been trying out those "Play Games and Earn Money" apps. I use Prizeplay and it's easy to make over a dollar on there within its 3 hour limit. I'd say just pick a mindless game from their catalogue, download it, and play it. It offers prepaid cards, gift cards and PayPal payments. I haven't cashed out my 1 dollar yet but I should to see if it even works. They said they'll just email your earnings.

Anything else remote and isolating requires some skill, like coding or knowing how to draw. But anyone can do that if they put their time and effort into it.

Anonymous 08/30/25 (Sat) 21:38:34 No.9668

>>9652
did you manage to earn anything yet?

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possibility of psychosis 06/24/25 (Tue) 12:19:17 No.9528 [Reply]

is anyone else here beginning to develop something to the effect of paranoia and delusions after prolonged social isolation? i've been completely alone for over a year now, and even when i was younger i was a social outcast. lately i've begun to have these episodes where i compulsively worry/catastrophize about things like people stalking me, this weird internet conspiracy where people are stalking me and recording everything i do, something to the truman delusion. on top of this i've begun to notice that objects in my room are telepathically communicating with me; it's not like "hearing voices" as the voices are very obviously in my head in the same space as like an internal monolouge, they aren't "diegetic" really, i can tell that they aren't real and are just hallucinations, but it defintiely isn't normal.

is it possible for loneliness and prolonged social isolation to cause psychotic symptoms? am i losing my mind?

something to note in the case of comorbidity; i am diagnosed with major depressive disorder and my psychiatrist seems to believe and wants to investigate the possibility of borderline personality disorder, which may partially be related to my social isolation and why i'm in this situation in the first place. I apologize if this thread comes off as strange or weird question.

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Anonymous 06/29/25 (Sun) 20:07:15 No.9539

yess but it got better for me after stopping some meds and i think if i talk to people more itll get better. (idk if recommended for people here)

Anonymous 07/18/25 (Fri) 09:50:20 No.9611

>>9539
op here, i have been on virtually every main antidepressant and nothing has ever worked

Anonymous 08/18/25 (Mon) 14:40:12 No.9659

>>9611
Me too OP. Mental health services told me it's an issue with my life instead.

Some suspect I have bpd, I've been having paranoid delusions and also hallucinations worsening a few months ago. My theory is it may be because of a lack of stimulation. Humans aren't supposed to be alone this long

Anonymous 08/19/25 (Tue) 00:58:50 No.9662

>>9659
>My theory is it may be because of a lack of stimulation. Humans aren't supposed to be alone this long
this is the exact same thing that's happening to me, or atleast i think it is

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sickness Anonymous 04/21/15 (Tue) 08:34:00 No.190 [Reply]

post itt if you are sickly as well as NEET

i got CFS/ME/SEID/whatever docs wanna call it, but basically im too tired to leave the house or even bed most of the time, and its not depression or anything mental

also get mad headaches, nausea, and dizziness from just standing up

also relevant is itt NO BULLYING ALLOWED!!

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Anonymous 01/26/23 (Thu) 22:14:45 No.7608

>>7607
I was for 7 years and this is my thread fuck off

Anonymous 04/29/23 (Sat) 05:00:36 No.7689

I ran out of my vitamin D supplements not long ago and I'm beginning to face the effects without it. Being a hikki especially one who's been inside for 6 months now I know it won't go well without it - going to reup soon.

Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 03:19:00 No.8819

so much to update in the last year jesus christ

long story short im very much NEET again, i pick up my first dole/unemployment payment in ireland tomorrow

meanwhile cafe went to shit and i lost everything, but its pushed me to accept im going to have to back to school which ill most likely be doing from this september

i moved back to america for a month but nope'd the fuck out, im 32 in a month and without a degree the job prospects were shit but its really the same in most first world countries so may as well be somewhere im happy and has a better welfare state

in ireland im going to be able to get paid to go to school, potentially get a medical card for free healthcare, all that jazz which is great

Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 13:21:58 No.8826

>>7606
you look like stampylonghead if he just went cold turkey on a heroin addiction <3

Anonymous 08/18/25 (Mon) 15:14:00 No.9661

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Yeah occipital neuralgia,(only thing here that feels like my fault) constant full body nerve pain,extreme heat sensitivity, abdominal pain, nausea, tiredness. I hate doctors who want to call it fibromyalgia and leave it at that without treating the worsening symptoms. I hope I can find a cause before I can't get the money for anything anymore and I hope you are all kind to yourselves

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questions for the NEETs Anonymous 01/17/16 (Sun) 16:19:12 No.19 [Reply][Last 50 Posts]

hi /n/, im curious about the NEETdom and wondering if you could answer some questions?

how long have you been a NEET?
was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
what do you do all day?
what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
how often do you get outside, if at all?
do you live independently or with parents?

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Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 18:11:09 No.9472

>>9458
well I didn't get the job because I didn't have manager experience. How am I supposed to get experience for a job that requires the experience of that job to get?
Anyway, I HATE VIRTUAL INTERVIEWS. I HATE SETTING UP MY WEBCAM. I HATE SHOWING STRANGERS MY LIVING SPACE WHEN THEY WON'T EVEN SHOW THEIR FACE.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 19:39:37 No.9473

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>>9472
You don't, you show them the wall, picrel.
> How am I supposed to get experience for a job that requires the experience of that job to get?
Don't worry, sooner or later they will realize they won't have anybody qualified for the job since they haven't trained anybody. It will all burn in hell.

Anonymous 04/26/25 (Sat) 04:04:51 No.9481

>>9472
If you're my bro, you lie and say you have it. There's a reason why he's now making quite a bit of money and I'm basically NEET again -_-

Anonymous 04/26/25 (Sat) 23:51:37 No.9482

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Two years currently, plus 2 years between 2020 and 2022.

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Mental health problems from childhood s/a, and generally not liking other people. I find it impossible to talk to or trust anyone, even if I know I should.

>what do you do all day?
Scroll through imageboards/social media, read a lot of manga and play a lot of games (even if they aren't good..)

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I have a friend who texts me from time to time, I think she just finds the way I live interesting. I don't get it, but there's probably some novelty in listening to me ramble

>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Every few months. My mom has health issues and doesn't like going to checkups alone.

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Anonymous 08/18/25 (Mon) 14:50:42 No.9660

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>>19
>how long have you been a NEET?
Long periods of on and off since I was 12
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Autism, social anxiety, not having friends, undiagnosed ADHD
>what do you do all day?
Browse Imageboards, watch other people live their life online, watch childish shows
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online this is as close as it gets. Offline sometimes my mother's friend's daughter visits
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Maybe every 2 weeks I will leave the house for an appointment or something
>do you live independently or with parents?
With parents, I'd die alone

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deleting discord - good thing? Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 02:01:37 No.9544 [Reply]

i've recently deleted my discord accoutn in an attempt to at least drastically cut back my social interaction and at most completely socially isolate myself because i feel like it's better than constantly begging people for attention and having public mental breakdowns. i know the methodology of my little self-experiment is incredibly stupid and my wording is probably strange too but i feel like eventually my biological urge to socialize will go away. any advice as to what i should do to fill the time?

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Anonymous 07/03/25 (Thu) 23:57:12 No.9592

>>9590
r u ok?

who 07/07/25 (Mon) 17:10:57 No.9598

I deleted my discord and haven't looked back

Anonymous 07/07/25 (Mon) 19:04:16 No.9599

>>9598
why. why why why why why

Anonymous 07/16/25 (Wed) 09:04:36 No.9605

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>>9598

Anonymous 07/31/25 (Thu) 07:13:53 No.9624

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>>9598
keep 'writing songs' and 'shitposting' to your "'kurt cobain'" that way maybe he ll take a leap of faith to see you again in another 10 years. i dont trust you im leaving

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People..where ru guys now?..from 2019? Corpse-san 05/30/24 (Thu) 10:43:35 No.8113 [Reply]

ive been on here since like 2017 to 2019 where id just browse the boards and sometimes ask about random things since it was like the lowest point of my life, but now i only see posts from years ago? what happened, why is this web so slow now? where are you all? if youve gotten better, good for you ^_^ !

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sks !DMljOvD5IE 07/25/25 (Fri) 01:39:58 No.9619

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>>9616
There used to be a lot easier ways to find community online and everything was so distilled into sameness from memes, style of discussion, etc. Every community felt unique. There's not a whole lot we can do about it, but I agree that immersing yourself in hobbies is the best way to avoid the isolation feelings (something that I've been neglecting to do myself recently and just stressing myself worrying if I fit into online spaces instead of just not giving a fuck as if it matters). It's tiring because at this point, I feel both a call to isolation and a call to not be alone. Both conflicting at once. It's within in this state of mind I find myself wondering just how much online really effects my mind, and if I should just take a break/hiatus from things again.

Anonymous 07/26/25 (Sat) 11:46:11 No.9620

>>9619
wtf new tripfag untermensch?(This was not very nice of you to say that!)

sage Anonymous 07/28/25 (Mon) 13:18:26 No.9621

>>9620
I hope this wasn't actually a ban. This new moderation style is beginning to give me shadows of the feeling I got when appleman took over lainchan.(USER WAS BANNED FOR THE COMEDIC TIMING)

Anonymous 07/28/25 (Mon) 13:20:30 No.9622

….and me being a fucking idiot dumbass is besides the point.

Anonymous 07/30/25 (Wed) 07:52:26 No.9623

>>9621
it was, im on vpn

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