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News Post: I am Retiring.

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 No.6627[Reply]

I missed out on everything as a kid. I was always left alone by my peers which fucked me up of any social skills in the long run. I still have trouble holding a conversation. Have you guys had any trouble as a kid? This extreme isolation happened from 3rd to 8th grade which was enough to cripple me possibly my whole life. Or what is left of it anyway. Nearly 6 years of my life consisted of going home from school and back. Every day. Never talk with anyone, not even with family. Just me and my thoughts from a young age

I don't want to be like those other anons who just vent out shit here, so I'll ask the question, have you guys went through something similar that had a damaging effect on you? I still feel bits of loneliness from it.

pic unrelated FLCL just makes me feel like shit
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 No.9614

>>9612
Are tu the woman dressed in faded green that just knocked on my door

 No.9630

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>>9612
I miss my job.

 No.9705

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>>9630
Since I wrote this one I got into another hotel and yet again I got fired again. I don't even want to try anymore I just have to be an hero and save the world from me

 No.9706

same here, I was always left out by people my age since 5th grade
now I can't even hold a conversation or small talk without making it awkward with my inability to socialize :(

 No.9707

>>9706
i feel the same, but it's compounded by the fact that all the social circles im in (fag indie rpgs, rock climbing, skating, mtg) attract either ubertards or the most intolerably morose people ever


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 No.9671[Reply]

Forgive me for my typing this is one of my first times posting here for context my parents were trying to have kids they had five miscarriages before me and my biological mother was a drug addict [opioid addiction] and i born a month early and was addicted to opioids
i think now that in my later teens i think it might have messed me up mentally permanently now that in mentally, my other parent my dad is a good guy but a big normie i feel like i should have never been born i feel like in another timeline if my mother actually changed her life i could have been a dumb normie with friends and a life pls anons help me cope

 No.9673

You didn't give a single reason of why you shouldn't have been born. Especially if one of your parents is good as you say.
Even if there is only downsides to your existence at the moment, you're no older than 20, you're waaaaaaaay too young to even know what value your life is gonna have at 30 or 40.
If you wanna be a dumb normie with a life and friends, more power to you, you have plenty of time to redirect your life in that direction. Hope you make it

 No.9677

The "I feel I should have never been born" got me by surprise. Don't see why you ended up reaching that conclusion.

 No.9703

i am sorry you had to go through this. but you couldn't even choose, so it's not fair to say you should have never been born as it's not your fault…


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 No.9685[Reply]

I wanna work out because it’s supposed to help with my mental health i don’t own any workout equipment does anyone know any good exercises btw I dont know if this belongs on this board it seems more like a /fit problem but i thought it was my fitting to be in here pls correct me if im wrong thank you

 No.9686

Check out the website Darebee. Has a lot of free workouts that don't require any equipment. Do the Foundations program first if you haven't worked out in a while/this is your first time working out.

 No.9687

This isn’t my first working out for the last couple weeks ive been doing 2 reps of 15 push ups Monday through friday and taking a break on weekends thank you so much for the advice your a god send

 No.9688

thanks :thubsups:

 No.9691

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theres no fit on uboachan


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 No.9669[Reply]

Have you guys ever experienced limerance?

I met my limerence object 2 years ago in a rythm game forum, then got closer in a discord server with people of the forum, before this I was the type of person that did not care about relationships or even friendships but being there made me apreciate having someone to talk to even if it was online.

A year passed, I was getting closer to him and slowly fell in love for the first time, every interaction felt euphoric and time without him was pure despair. After confessing due to reasons and getting rejected because of phisical distance we still were friends and I slowly got better at dealing with the addiction (I still struggle tbh)

I have been going to a therapist for this and other reasons, so he is trying to get me to know other autistic people semi-close to where I live
to have more social circles since i only have my LO's and my neighbor.

It's really hard for me to move on since we have so much in common and it feels like we were meant to be except for the phisical distance, I wish one day I find someone like him and can be in a secure relationship
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 No.9680

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>It's really hard for me to move on since we have so much in common and it feels like we were meant to be except for the phisical distance, I wish one day I find someone like him and can be in a secure relationship
I've been in this situation before, I think you will find someone else like him or even better in your life. It just takes time, and some energy. It's best not to obsess over him and find others who you can relate to, even if thats easier said than done

 No.9681

>>9680
hI SKS I LOVE YOU PLEASE SAY HELLO BACK

 No.9684

>>9681
Hello

 No.9689

>>9681
hi

 No.9690

>>9689
hello please marry me sks i love you and then we can commit jihad against the other mods please respond


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 No.9676[Reply]

Anyone have any anime recommendations like it i’v watched watamote too so any anime like them would be cool

 No.9679

watch gachaman crowds

 No.9682

What the fuck is gachaman


 No.7283[Reply]

Anyone here do it? I used to cut myself open, just for the sake of it really, but I regret it a lot because the scars never faded and I'm covered in ugly lines that anyone would be able to tell are from self harming.

You may also post QTs cutting themselves up.
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 No.8824

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>>7297
>>7289
Replying to myself just to randomly vent / blog I guess, there's a weird comfort in just saying my thoughts on this board every once in a while. It feels like a lot has changed while nothing has changed in two years. I still go to gym, and I work at that job still and got a small promotion, so I've been able to save up money and visited another country for the first time ever.

I wasn't self harming since this post, until a friend commit suicide in 2023, so I started again. Part of me thought I grew out of it, but I feel like at this point my way of dealing with my emotions has been so unhealthy for so long that I'll never stop doing it, I feel like my emotions are much stronger and linger longer than normal peoples' do, but maybe they don't, and I'm just making excuses. It doesn't help that I think a part of me really likes my scars, like they're a significant part of my history like tattoos or something.

I also recently got very close with a girl, but my insecurities started showing, and I think this made her lose interest in me, so I started cutting again while at work today. I couldn't find anything sharp, so I snapped my plastic ID badge in half and used that, if there's a will there's a way I guess. I need to go to therapy or go on antidepressants or something, but I'm so emotionally closed off from most people that it feels scary to ever be open.

 No.9657

I got my ex-girlfriend to cut my back over a week ago.

 No.9658

I used to do it but my body started to hurt too much from illness so I decided not to add to it

 No.9663

>>9657
What happened between a week ago and now to earn the "ex" title?

 No.9670

>>9663
Nothing.


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 No.9631[Reply]

Do you guys have any cool ideas for a source of income, small even? Realized or unrealized. Maybe something you can do from home… or alone…
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 No.9636

I've heard of taking pics and selling them as stock photos, it's not much but it's certainly low effort (if you like photography!)

 No.9649

>>9636
Realistically, how much could I make from this?

 No.9650

>>9649
Not much really. Depends on your strategy though, it would probably be hard to make serious money with it *now*, but if you circumvent stock agencies and go directly to buyers… maybe in the low hundreds (of dollars)

 No.9652

I do surveys. Five Surveys and Prime Opinion are all from the same company. they're legit and even gave ACH if you prefer that.

I've recently also been trying out those "Play Games and Earn Money" apps. I use Prizeplay and it's easy to make over a dollar on there within its 3 hour limit. I'd say just pick a mindless game from their catalogue, download it, and play it. It offers prepaid cards, gift cards and PayPal payments. I haven't cashed out my 1 dollar yet but I should to see if it even works. They said they'll just email your earnings.

Anything else remote and isolating requires some skill, like coding or knowing how to draw. But anyone can do that if they put their time and effort into it.

 No.9668

>>9652
did you manage to earn anything yet?


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 No.9528[Reply]

is anyone else here beginning to develop something to the effect of paranoia and delusions after prolonged social isolation? i've been completely alone for over a year now, and even when i was younger i was a social outcast. lately i've begun to have these episodes where i compulsively worry/catastrophize about things like people stalking me, this weird internet conspiracy where people are stalking me and recording everything i do, something to the truman delusion. on top of this i've begun to notice that objects in my room are telepathically communicating with me; it's not like "hearing voices" as the voices are very obviously in my head in the same space as like an internal monolouge, they aren't "diegetic" really, i can tell that they aren't real and are just hallucinations, but it defintiely isn't normal.

is it possible for loneliness and prolonged social isolation to cause psychotic symptoms? am i losing my mind?

something to note in the case of comorbidity; i am diagnosed with major depressive disorder and my psychiatrist seems to believe and wants to investigate the possibility of borderline personality disorder, which may partially be related to my social isolation and why i'm in this situation in the first place. I apologize if this thread comes off as strange or weird question.
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 No.9539

yess but it got better for me after stopping some meds and i think if i talk to people more itll get better. (idk if recommended for people here)

 No.9611

>>9539
op here, i have been on virtually every main antidepressant and nothing has ever worked

 No.9659

>>9611
Me too OP. Mental health services told me it's an issue with my life instead.

Some suspect I have bpd, I've been having paranoid delusions and also hallucinations worsening a few months ago. My theory is it may be because of a lack of stimulation. Humans aren't supposed to be alone this long

 No.9662

>>9659
>My theory is it may be because of a lack of stimulation. Humans aren't supposed to be alone this long
this is the exact same thing that's happening to me, or atleast i think it is

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 No.190[Reply]

post itt if you are sickly as well as NEET

i got CFS/ME/SEID/whatever docs wanna call it, but basically im too tired to leave the house or even bed most of the time, and its not depression or anything mental

also get mad headaches, nausea, and dizziness from just standing up

also relevant is itt NO BULLYING ALLOWED!!
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 No.7608

>>7607
I was for 7 years and this is my thread fuck off

 No.7689

I ran out of my vitamin D supplements not long ago and I'm beginning to face the effects without it. Being a hikki especially one who's been inside for 6 months now I know it won't go well without it - going to reup soon.

 No.8819

so much to update in the last year jesus christ

long story short im very much NEET again, i pick up my first dole/unemployment payment in ireland tomorrow

meanwhile cafe went to shit and i lost everything, but its pushed me to accept im going to have to back to school which ill most likely be doing from this september

i moved back to america for a month but nope'd the fuck out, im 32 in a month and without a degree the job prospects were shit but its really the same in most first world countries so may as well be somewhere im happy and has a better welfare state

in ireland im going to be able to get paid to go to school, potentially get a medical card for free healthcare, all that jazz which is great

 No.8826

>>7606
you look like stampylonghead if he just went cold turkey on a heroin addiction <3

 No.9661

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Yeah occipital neuralgia,(only thing here that feels like my fault) constant full body nerve pain,extreme heat sensitivity, abdominal pain, nausea, tiredness. I hate doctors who want to call it fibromyalgia and leave it at that without treating the worsening symptoms. I hope I can find a cause before I can't get the money for anything anymore and I hope you are all kind to yourselves


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 No.19[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

hi /n/, im curious about the NEETdom and wondering if you could answer some questions?

how long have you been a NEET?
was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
what do you do all day?
what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
how often do you get outside, if at all?
do you live independently or with parents?
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 No.9472

>>9458
well I didn't get the job because I didn't have manager experience. How am I supposed to get experience for a job that requires the experience of that job to get?
Anyway, I HATE VIRTUAL INTERVIEWS. I HATE SETTING UP MY WEBCAM. I HATE SHOWING STRANGERS MY LIVING SPACE WHEN THEY WON'T EVEN SHOW THEIR FACE.

 No.9473

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>>9472
You don't, you show them the wall, picrel.
> How am I supposed to get experience for a job that requires the experience of that job to get?
Don't worry, sooner or later they will realize they won't have anybody qualified for the job since they haven't trained anybody. It will all burn in hell.

 No.9481

>>9472
If you're my bro, you lie and say you have it. There's a reason why he's now making quite a bit of money and I'm basically NEET again -_-

 No.9482

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Two years currently, plus 2 years between 2020 and 2022.

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Mental health problems from childhood s/a, and generally not liking other people. I find it impossible to talk to or trust anyone, even if I know I should.

>what do you do all day?
Scroll through imageboards/social media, read a lot of manga and play a lot of games (even if they aren't good..)

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I have a friend who texts me from time to time, I think she just finds the way I live interesting. I don't get it, but there's probably some novelty in listening to me ramble

>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Every few months. My mom has health issues and doesn't like going to checkups alone.

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 No.9660

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>>19
>how long have you been a NEET?
Long periods of on and off since I was 12
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Autism, social anxiety, not having friends, undiagnosed ADHD
>what do you do all day?
Browse Imageboards, watch other people live their life online, watch childish shows
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online this is as close as it gets. Offline sometimes my mother's friend's daughter visits
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Maybe every 2 weeks I will leave the house for an appointment or something
>do you live independently or with parents?
With parents, I'd die alone


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