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questions for the NEETs Anonymous 01/17/16 (Sun) 16:19:12 No.19 [Reply][Last 50 Posts]

hi /n/, im curious about the NEETdom and wondering if you could answer some questions?

how long have you been a NEET?
was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
what do you do all day?
what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
how often do you get outside, if at all?
do you live independently or with parents?

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Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 18:11:09 No.9472

>>9458
well I didn't get the job because I didn't have manager experience. How am I supposed to get experience for a job that requires the experience of that job to get?
Anyway, I HATE VIRTUAL INTERVIEWS. I HATE SETTING UP MY WEBCAM. I HATE SHOWING STRANGERS MY LIVING SPACE WHEN THEY WON'T EVEN SHOW THEIR FACE.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 19:39:37 No.9473

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>>9472
You don't, you show them the wall, picrel.
> How am I supposed to get experience for a job that requires the experience of that job to get?
Don't worry, sooner or later they will realize they won't have anybody qualified for the job since they haven't trained anybody. It will all burn in hell.

Anonymous 04/26/25 (Sat) 04:04:51 No.9481

>>9472
If you're my bro, you lie and say you have it. There's a reason why he's now making quite a bit of money and I'm basically NEET again -_-

Anonymous 04/26/25 (Sat) 23:51:37 No.9482

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Two years currently, plus 2 years between 2020 and 2022.

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Mental health problems from childhood s/a, and generally not liking other people. I find it impossible to talk to or trust anyone, even if I know I should.

>what do you do all day?
Scroll through imageboards/social media, read a lot of manga and play a lot of games (even if they aren't good..)

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I have a friend who texts me from time to time, I think she just finds the way I live interesting. I don't get it, but there's probably some novelty in listening to me ramble

>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Every few months. My mom has health issues and doesn't like going to checkups alone.

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Anonymous 08/18/25 (Mon) 14:50:42 No.9660

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>>19
>how long have you been a NEET?
Long periods of on and off since I was 12
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Autism, social anxiety, not having friends, undiagnosed ADHD
>what do you do all day?
Browse Imageboards, watch other people live their life online, watch childish shows
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online this is as close as it gets. Offline sometimes my mother's friend's daughter visits
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Maybe every 2 weeks I will leave the house for an appointment or something
>do you live independently or with parents?
With parents, I'd die alone

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Anonymous 08/06/25 (Wed) 23:19:17 No.9637 [Reply]

hey guys can help with some things please 1 stay grounded in reality and not go fucking insane 2 not get panic attacks and intense paralysis and gut pain at merely the thought of getting a job people like everything are fucking gross and frightening for me they just wont leave me alone 3 try think positively i have this feeling im barely worth a thousandth of a cent Thanks

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Anonymous 08/07/25 (Thu) 19:59:00 No.9643

>>9642
Well, what do you wanna know?

Anonymous 08/07/25 (Thu) 20:00:35 No.9644

>>9643
Who are you and what is you ageda

Anonymous 08/07/25 (Thu) 20:23:52 No.9646

>>9644
I'm a 21 yo long-time resident of this imageboard, currently jobless and I don't have any agenda in particular. I've had some personal trouble with both 1, 2 and 3 and I've developed some coping strategies, that I could discuss

Anonymous 08/08/25 (Fri) 18:35:51 No.9647

1 Go out everyday for a bit, look out the window often, make sure you talk to at least one person a day (beyond courtesies) IRL
2 Get a easy part time job that you're sure you will do well at even if all other things vary
3 Measure your worth by days left not by days lived

Anonymous 08/09/25 (Sat) 20:25:20 No.9648

>>9644
You still around?

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Anonymous 07/06/21 (Tue) 20:13:40 No.6627 [Reply]

I missed out on everything as a kid. I was always left alone by my peers which fucked me up of any social skills in the long run. I still have trouble holding a conversation. Have you guys had any trouble as a kid? This extreme isolation happened from 3rd to 8th grade which was enough to cripple me possibly my whole life. Or what is left of it anyway. Nearly 6 years of my life consisted of going home from school and back. Every day. Never talk with anyone, not even with family. Just me and my thoughts from a young age

I don't want to be like those other anons who just vent out shit here, so I'll ask the question, have you guys went through something similar that had a damaging effect on you? I still feel bits of loneliness from it.

pic unrelated FLCL just makes me feel like shit

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Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 00:22:27 No.9541

>>9532
ME TOO

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 11:27:13 No.9612

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>>9532
Since I made this post I worked at a hotel as a receptionist for 3 weeks, boss called me to his room 30 mins ago to say today is my last day. Oh well

Can't do anything right

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 13:08:49 No.9613

>>9612
me to

Anonymous 07/20/25 (Sun) 14:37:14 No.9614

>>9612
Are tu the woman dressed in faded green that just knocked on my door

Anonymous 08/03/25 (Sun) 00:57:25 No.9630

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>>9612
I miss my job.

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deleting discord - good thing? Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 02:01:37 No.9544 [Reply]

i've recently deleted my discord accoutn in an attempt to at least drastically cut back my social interaction and at most completely socially isolate myself because i feel like it's better than constantly begging people for attention and having public mental breakdowns. i know the methodology of my little self-experiment is incredibly stupid and my wording is probably strange too but i feel like eventually my biological urge to socialize will go away. any advice as to what i should do to fill the time?

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Anonymous 07/03/25 (Thu) 23:57:12 No.9592

>>9590
r u ok?

who 07/07/25 (Mon) 17:10:57 No.9598

I deleted my discord and haven't looked back

Anonymous 07/07/25 (Mon) 19:04:16 No.9599

>>9598
why. why why why why why

Anonymous 07/16/25 (Wed) 09:04:36 No.9605

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>>9598

Anonymous 07/31/25 (Thu) 07:13:53 No.9624

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>>9598
keep 'writing songs' and 'shitposting' to your "'kurt cobain'" that way maybe he ll take a leap of faith to see you again in another 10 years. i dont trust you im leaving

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People..where ru guys now?..from 2019? Corpse-san 05/30/24 (Thu) 10:43:35 No.8113 [Reply]

ive been on here since like 2017 to 2019 where id just browse the boards and sometimes ask about random things since it was like the lowest point of my life, but now i only see posts from years ago? what happened, why is this web so slow now? where are you all? if youve gotten better, good for you ^_^ !

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sks !DMljOvD5IE 07/25/25 (Fri) 01:39:58 No.9619

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>>9616
There used to be a lot easier ways to find community online and everything was so distilled into sameness from memes, style of discussion, etc. Every community felt unique. There's not a whole lot we can do about it, but I agree that immersing yourself in hobbies is the best way to avoid the isolation feelings (something that I've been neglecting to do myself recently and just stressing myself worrying if I fit into online spaces instead of just not giving a fuck as if it matters). It's tiring because at this point, I feel both a call to isolation and a call to not be alone. Both conflicting at once. It's within in this state of mind I find myself wondering just how much online really effects my mind, and if I should just take a break/hiatus from things again.

Anonymous 07/26/25 (Sat) 11:46:11 No.9620

>>9619
wtf new tripfag untermensch?(This was not very nice of you to say that!)

sage Anonymous 07/28/25 (Mon) 13:18:26 No.9621

>>9620
I hope this wasn't actually a ban. This new moderation style is beginning to give me shadows of the feeling I got when appleman took over lainchan.(USER WAS BANNED FOR THE COMEDIC TIMING)

Anonymous 07/28/25 (Mon) 13:20:30 No.9622

….and me being a fucking idiot dumbass is besides the point.

Anonymous 07/30/25 (Wed) 07:52:26 No.9623

>>9621
it was, im on vpn

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Anonymous 12/12/24 (Thu) 10:50:34 No.8761 [Reply]

As an incel I will soon be 30 years old, I am tired of waiting and struggling, no woman will come into my life, and deep down I know it. It would be better to focus on me, my health, my hobbies and my personal growth. Sometimes life is like that, you have to be strong and conscious, but you are still alive and you can still enjoy things.
A cybernetic hug.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pmgb5yVroBc&list=PL1NCNBOfO0imJqZnRTzjDWUjxB9-9_54t&index=11

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Anonymous 12/16/24 (Mon) 11:59:02 No.8784

>>8771
Understandable and respectable, fratello.

Anonymous 12/20/24 (Fri) 14:50:10 No.8793

>>8762
He's going to get called that whether he likes it or not so might as well own it.

Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 19:47:17 No.9555

men say this and then have the most soulful personalities and then create evangelion

Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 19:53:50 No.9556

>>8793
ok, but i think it's weird to internalize it.

Anonymous 07/02/25 (Wed) 13:32:13 No.9572

>>9556
i think it's weird that people play yume 2kki when .flow is better

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hikki amechan_inda_flesh 11/20/23 (Mon) 20:07:48 No.7863 [Reply]

how the fuck do i talk to ppl irl (specifically at school)

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Anonymous 05/13/24 (Mon) 21:00:47 No.8103

>>8091
I don't actually have any problem leaving my house/room, I just don't have any friends or money to do anything.

Anonymous 06/29/25 (Sun) 21:25:07 No.9540

this board is so bad to be on if you are a teen or young adult. especially if you are easily impressionable and think hikkineets are cool. brainworms. also absorbing other's miserable thoughts. it's bad.

Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 00:50:35 No.9542

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>>9540
It's a fansite for a game where some girl shuts herself in her apartment and has nightmares until she kills herself and there isn't much to the game other than to watch the girl go through trippy and fucked up trauma implications.
That will obviously gather a bunch of people from which a great many will be mentally ill, and for some reason they have a forum to discuss mental health of all things where most are likely not to be in a good place to give mental health tips to anybody.
Of damn course its not a place for kids or idiots. This site is as adults only as it gets.
On the bright side, it's fun.

Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 01:35:30 No.9543

>>9542
plump 13 year old pakistani fingers wrote this

Anonymous 06/30/25 (Mon) 02:05:01 No.9545

>>7863
>school
i really really hate to be like this because gatekeeping doesn't help anyone but i feel like hikki communities are not the best place to ask for social advice in situations like this

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she's trying, it isn't working - why won't i let her help? Anonymous 06/25/25 (Wed) 00:13:06 No.9531 [Reply]

my mother has come to realize that i havent been leaving my bed let alone my room and she's starting to try to pull me out of the room to spend time with her (e.g. cooking, helping her out with stuff).

however, there's some subconscious side of me that, against my will, fights her at every step and the moment i'm free from her plunges me back deeper into isolation. i don't know what to do. i dont want to be this way anymore. i don't want to be alone but for some reason part of me does want to.

i wanted to live a normal life. i wanted to go to community college. i wanted to have a career. i wanted to have a loving husband. instead i can't remember the last time i left my house.

please for the love of god help me. i cant keep living like this. i genuinely don't know what to do anymore. i don't want to die a miserable shell of who i used to be.

Anonymous 06/25/25 (Wed) 21:41:30 No.9534

sounds like depression

Anonymous 06/25/25 (Wed) 21:46:55 No.9535

>>9534
oh yeah about that to clarify for further discussion i am diagnosed with major depressive disorder and nearly dropped out of high school because of it

Anonymous 06/26/25 (Thu) 09:35:59 No.9536

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I think what it comes down to, and this might not sound helpful/easier said than done, is just resisting the urge. i guess "resisting the other side of you" in this instance. it'll be extremely uncomfortable but you can't have anything if you don't try for it. little by little of course, don't force yourself too hard in the beginning or you will fall back. it sounds like your mother is pretty much giving you baby steps so try your hardest to go along with her for now and then work your way up. maybe to not immediately go NEET mode again, you could hang out with her a little longer each time you do something together, like a chat after putting away the groceries or what have you or talking about the food you guys made and considering other recipes. hope this doesn't sound too reddit, i believe in you anon-chan

Anonymous 06/28/25 (Sat) 11:26:05 No.9538

the reason why you kinda dont want to get out of this subconsciously is most likely because that is simply what you have become used to. isolation is your everyday life since probably quite a long time and getting out of your comfort zone is extremely hard but definitely possible. so yeah do what anon said, push yourself through with it, the fact that your mother acknowledges your problem and offers you subtle help is giving you a big advantage in terms of healing. accept her help, do not dump it in the trash just cause youre afraid or because it seems difficult. thats one of the reasons why many people (including me) stay stuck forever.

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finding job Anonymous 06/26/25 (Thu) 10:11:33 No.9537 [Reply]

hi, can someone please help me decide if ita even worth trying to find a job anymore in the UK.this is a big dilemma, i love the uk people qre kind and respectful but im starting to go insane from all the inactivity and job hunting. and i feel ive let myself down for giving up. but i feel like im naturally gravitating towards it

>30
>romanian with settled status
>bsc, masters in IT
>3-4 years experience in IT
>2 in Romania 1 in the UK
>found last job after one whole year of searching but screwed it up
>looking now, barely 5-10 new jobs a day

appreciate any thoughts honest opinions thank you

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Anonymous 04/18/25 (Fri) 07:41:45 No.9417 [Reply]

how do i make myself less like byakuya togami and more like chihiro fujisaki

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nama3!Rc/nDmcOQM 04/18/25 (Fri) 19:32:44 No.9425

>>9423
he wants to be like a video game character.

Anonymous 04/19/25 (Sat) 15:02:59 No.9433

what the ._.

Btw, i hope Balatro rlly good game

Anonymous 06/16/25 (Mon) 06:24:59 No.9519

well, comparing them both, chihiro fujisaki has a milder personality while byakuya is more precise and sometimes blunt in his words. So try to be calmer, quieter, gentle.
you know, a submissive breedable twink

Anonymous 06/16/25 (Mon) 10:36:42 No.9520

>>9519
im not wasting my money on pinkpills you shill

Anonymous 06/16/25 (Mon) 14:54:53 No.9521

>>9423
Can you post tomoko_disgust1.png (or tomoko_disgust.png) for me please

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