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News Post: I am Retiring.

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 No.9750[Reply]

What even is fun supposed to feel like? I genuinely cannot think of a single time in my life when I've ever had fun. It's honestly like my brain just isn't wired to feel positive emotions. Nothing is fun. Nothing is enjoyable. Nothing is pleasurable. And, with zero ability to feel joy or pleasure, what reason do I even have to stay alive?

 No.9752

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>>9750
It's a whole entire problem that you can't feel positive emotions and you may wanna fix that or not but purpose doesn't need to be tied to fun or enjoyment, not even to happiness.

Find what you're good at.


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 No.9726[Reply]

I will never have a job.

I will never move out of my parents' house.

I will never have sex.

I will never have a girlfriend.

I will never have any friends.
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 No.9738

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>>9736
i hate most people and have refused to conform to societal standards from a young age.
dropped out of high-school became a NEET and never looked back, i believe humans, especially modern humans ought to strive for comfort since generations of our ancestors died toiling in the sun.
anything more specific you wanted to know?

 No.9739

>>9738
i meant how youre coping with being jobless lol

 No.9740

>>9739
The only people that cope are wage slaves. Imagine having to work to be able to survive lmao.

 No.9741

>>9740
>>9739
It's okay to be a NEET and it's okay to be a wageslave, let each other live.

 No.9742

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>>9739
with NEETbux.
>>9740
without wagies id have to work, so im thankful for them.


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 No.9728[Reply]

I was thinking of getting a new start in life and actually being happy so im thinking of moving to russia i have some money saved up should i do it?

 No.9730

Not sure about just how is an average American getting a visa to go to Russia (maybe through China?) legally and without getting trafficked / deployed to the SMO and slaughtered like a dog. Whoever is organizing for you is more than likely scamming you.

Assuming this is not outright ragebait (which it likely is), I still wouldn't go. Expect to work a lot for barely surviving anywhere (Siberia is a fucking hellscape btw), and I value my basic human freedoms (as I am a very outspoken person)

There is a better option for almost any circumstance. There are much better Slavic countries with gorgeous nature you can build your own little life in. If extremely rural life is what you desire, try Japan, Thailand, or any Asian country with dying elderly population. Even if you are legal enemies with the US, there are still far better countries to exile to.

 No.9731

>>9730
finland too also very good, come to finland… ho ho ho


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 No.9516[Reply]

I'm living a nightmare scenario that's often proposed to neet/hiki "what would you do if your caregiver gets sick?" well, this is what has happened to me and i don't know how much time i have left, but i refuse to work, my aunt i could stay with her for a while. Not sure if my stepdad will still take care of me, he said he would, but you never know.
For the time being, I'm trying to enjoy myself in any way i can until things get worse, sucks because i have no other family. fuck it.
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 No.9700

how are you now?

 No.9701

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>>9700
they died and im now on my own, havent gone insane yet. so im doing better than i thought i would. so uh yeah.

 No.9702

hello anon. are you okay?

 No.9710

*Thumbs


Up*

 No.9723

>>9701

sorry for loss, anon

its good to hear that you are doing good, ganba!


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 No.7914[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

must have and ideal tech setup for neets and hiki.
to start things off, id have to say
-desktop PC
-backup HDD or SSD
-laptop
-2nd monitor for laptop
-CRT for retro games and films
-2nd computer or 2nd laptop for use as media server
-minifridge
-comfortable chair or recliner
-VR
-steam deck
-decent speakers
-mechanical keyboard thatll last
-headphones
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 No.9629

https://youtu.be/qp9SEQkpFsc

 No.9651

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mini-pc arrived hooked it up to the thinkvision monitor now putting linux on it.
other mini-pc ought to arrive on the 14th.
also, im loving my x260.

 No.9666

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i put 4 different distros before using manjaro again, love the keyboard on the x260 it's amazing how different it is from the x280 keyboard.
i ordered an all-in-one monitor it ought to arrive soon.

 No.9667

>>9666
(checking my own digits) satanic trips.

 No.9722

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llol


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 No.9637[Reply]

hey guys can help with some things please 1 stay grounded in reality and not go fucking insane 2 not get panic attacks and intense paralysis and gut pain at merely the thought of getting a job people like everything are fucking gross and frightening for me they just wont leave me alone 3 try think positively i have this feeling im barely worth a thousandth of a cent Thanks
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 No.9644

>>9643
Who are you and what is you ageda

 No.9646

>>9644
I'm a 21 yo long-time resident of this imageboard, currently jobless and I don't have any agenda in particular. I've had some personal trouble with both 1, 2 and 3 and I've developed some coping strategies, that I could discuss

 No.9647

1 Go out everyday for a bit, look out the window often, make sure you talk to at least one person a day (beyond courtesies) IRL
2 Get a easy part time job that you're sure you will do well at even if all other things vary
3 Measure your worth by days left not by days lived

 No.9648

>>9644
You still around?

 No.9721

>>9648
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfV5kbEq5cE


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 No.9704[Reply]

I'm lonely
I've lost almost all my friends, both online and irl and I spend most of my time alone
I tried a sport or going to parties or stuff like that in the past but I never managed to make a connection with someone and I was always the one sitting alone in a corner
I really wish I could socialize better but I panic and freeze when I'm put in a social situation, even online I can't join in on conversations because I get scared
on top of the self hatred I already have idk if I'll manage to find people willing to stick with me
does anyone have any advice, please?

 No.9708

im in the sme boat as you i try not to think of my possibly bleak future as long as i dont think of it im normal and functioning. keep yourself busy with something to not think learn read something forget time

 No.9709

>>9704
i try to think its all happening for a reason and that i
shouldnt fight with it. it happens for a reaosn

 No.9715

>>9709 I think the only reason it happens is because I'm a dumbass

 No.9717

>>9715
sounds right *thumbs up*

 No.9719

>>9715
if you know youre a dumbass why are you still posting, what do you expect to happen ?


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 No.9537[Reply]

hi, can someone please help me decide if ita even worth trying to find a job anymore in the UK.this is a big dilemma, i love the uk people qre kind and respectful but im starting to go insane from all the inactivity and job hunting. and i feel ive let myself down for giving up. but i feel like im naturally gravitating towards it

>30
>romanian with settled status
>bsc, masters in IT
>3-4 years experience in IT
>2 in Romania 1 in the UK
>found last job after one whole year of searching but screwed it up
>looking now, barely 5-10 new jobs a day

appreciate any thoughts honest opinions thank you

 No.9714

>>9537
Damn, I was genuinely going to help you since I used to be a NEET crying on uboa a few years ago and now have a job I love making good money that's in high demand… but then I read that you were a fucking romanian. Rot and die.

 No.9716

>>9714
I'm also romanian and I agree with u


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 No.6627[Reply]

I missed out on everything as a kid. I was always left alone by my peers which fucked me up of any social skills in the long run. I still have trouble holding a conversation. Have you guys had any trouble as a kid? This extreme isolation happened from 3rd to 8th grade which was enough to cripple me possibly my whole life. Or what is left of it anyway. Nearly 6 years of my life consisted of going home from school and back. Every day. Never talk with anyone, not even with family. Just me and my thoughts from a young age

I don't want to be like those other anons who just vent out shit here, so I'll ask the question, have you guys went through something similar that had a damaging effect on you? I still feel bits of loneliness from it.

pic unrelated FLCL just makes me feel like shit
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 No.9614

>>9612
Are tu the woman dressed in faded green that just knocked on my door

 No.9630

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>>9612
I miss my job.

 No.9705

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>>9630
Since I wrote this one I got into another hotel and yet again I got fired again. I don't even want to try anymore I just have to be an hero and save the world from me

 No.9706

same here, I was always left out by people my age since 5th grade
now I can't even hold a conversation or small talk without making it awkward with my inability to socialize :(

 No.9707

>>9706
i feel the same, but it's compounded by the fact that all the social circles im in (fag indie rpgs, rock climbing, skating, mtg) attract either ubertards or the most intolerably morose people ever


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 No.9671[Reply]

Forgive me for my typing this is one of my first times posting here for context my parents were trying to have kids they had five miscarriages before me and my biological mother was a drug addict [opioid addiction] and i born a month early and was addicted to opioids
i think now that in my later teens i think it might have messed me up mentally permanently now that in mentally, my other parent my dad is a good guy but a big normie i feel like i should have never been born i feel like in another timeline if my mother actually changed her life i could have been a dumb normie with friends and a life pls anons help me cope

 No.9673

You didn't give a single reason of why you shouldn't have been born. Especially if one of your parents is good as you say.
Even if there is only downsides to your existence at the moment, you're no older than 20, you're waaaaaaaay too young to even know what value your life is gonna have at 30 or 40.
If you wanna be a dumb normie with a life and friends, more power to you, you have plenty of time to redirect your life in that direction. Hope you make it

 No.9677

The "I feel I should have never been born" got me by surprise. Don't see why you ended up reaching that conclusion.

 No.9703

i am sorry you had to go through this. but you couldn't even choose, so it's not fair to say you should have never been born as it's not your fault…


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