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 No.10024[Reply]

Being forever alone is only tolerable if you are a cute girl. There's just something so ethereal about the scenery of a pretty loner woman, trudging around in the snow alone on a winter night, surrounded by bokeh Christmas light decorations. Unfortunately, I was born as a masculine looking moid, so I will shoot myself eventually.

In fact, I don't think moids should exist at all. Autistic moids like me literally serve no purpose.

The connection between my autism and my gender dysphoria is that as an autistic person, I cannot form any close bonds with others, so I can only be in the presence of beauty and femininity if I feminize myself. Imo the lifestyle of a woman is far superior for foreveralone autists, because socialization can be somewhat replaced by having a hobby in self-beautification and exploring a much wider range of personal aesthetic expression, with ornate dresses, skirts, makeup, ribbons, and accessories.
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 No.10031

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I know how you feel OP but don't shoot yourself, there's an entire life out there for you and there's always better options than just giving up. I am autistic too and it's always hard because social connection doesn't come easy. I did eventually teach myself in the most autistic way possible and it does feel like I am heavily masking at times, but it also allowed me access to people I could truly be myself around. I also get how you feel about being a moid, I am uncomfortable with my masculine traits as well but that's why I am taking slow but steady progress to feel more comfortable in my own body. Giving up should never be an option.

 No.10032

>>10031
I agree that it's best to treat autism through social/psychological training.

On the other hand, regarding gender dysphoria, "Accepting yourself" and "becoming comfortable" is totally inane and underwhelming BS. I desperately need multiple facial surgeries to eliminate this disgusting masculinity from my face, so i can at least become a more androgynous male.

 No.10033

>>10031
seconded you can piss off the new (indian) owner's legion of cocksuckers if you stay alive

 No.10034

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>>10033
Then I should let you >>10031 is me and I am in the legion of cocksuckers :^)
i dont think bal is indian though :^(

 No.10035

>>10034
tf u mean nigga bal/seagal is the most indian ass username ever, he probably plays enough pubg mobile to make a chinger blush(USER WAS BANNED FOR TRYING TOO HARD TO BE FUNNY)


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 No.6987[Reply]

How do you deal with an embarrassing past?
Also, share your embarrassing past. None will beat mine.

Humiliation is hard to overcome because I feel like I'm a trash human being, I'm constantly afraid that people will see my past in the afterlife and see all the humiliating things that happened to me and cringe. I can't be friends with them because I feel unworthy of their friendship.

I was a special ed student at 5 years old, spent all my youth with disabled people, they would lock me up in a padded room with no light when I misbehaved anyhow or didn't listen to the teacher.
I went to normal school after that and the teacher refused to let me use the bathroom, I peed my pants in front of the whole class and was bullied for 3 years over it.
I was bullied in 3 different schools because I had been sheltered and spoiled by my parents who thought they had a "special son".
I was beaten by bullies, isolated, humiliated, and had no friends for years.
I became bitter and angry and joined the chans, which fucked me up even more with gore videos and whatnot.
My parents left me to rot as a NEET for years to take care of my sisters and never paid attention to me.
I know my dad and mom hate me secretly and prefer my two sisters who are neurotypical.
I was an autistic retard, my whole youth. I can't overcome that and become someone I'm not. I will always be a retard.
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 No.7503

holy shit I've been looking for a thread like this. I'm obsessing over the past. I worry that even if i become the president or something crazy like that, people will find out about my past and destroy all that I will have accomplished up to that point. This is why I have no ambition.

 No.7509

Don't really have it in me to write anything long-winded at the moment, but I struggle with daily things normal people find effortless and it sucks, especially at my age. I've only kind of learned to conceal it and play it cool, but this base incompetence follows me around no matter where I go it seems like.

 No.7530

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Embarrassment is a huge set off for me. Spent a lot of my childhood as a non masking autistic and I ended up getting in a lot of shit situations because people could point at me and say ‘yep that’s definitely an autistic.

must’ve been in like fourth grade when I realised I had forgotten one day that it was own clothes day (uniformed school lel) and everyone else had come in their clothes while I was in my uniform. Ended up having a huge meltdown in the street because of my embarrassment, got stared at loads.
Own clothes days have set me off ever since, I even broke down in twelfth grade when I realised I had done it again and I had to go home because I was crying so much.

I still don’t know how to deal with it, since embarrassment kind of comes pre packaged with being autistic in such a society. Getting jeered at, stared at, wondering why you’re so different.

Embarrassments just never been my favorite feeling in the world

 No.10003

>>7530
Start ripping eyes out

 No.10030

>>7479
not that anon but i come back with an answer, you just feel immense guilt and loneliness when you are mentally or physically unwell


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 No.9879[Reply]

i'm nearing unemployment 2 years, i've tried to upskill with certificates, still barely get any interviews. is it hopeless? thank you
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 No.9912

>>9883
thanks for the post. sounds horrible i hope you get better anon



i wish i could calm down, i get nerve wracking despair, stomach stiffness and pain thinking i have no future anymore, n going to want to hire me with my cv. crying everyday in the mornings and evenings with some energy left to focus on something else in the middle if i can. i dont even know if i can handle entry/blue collar work im so useless. even then im too antisocial to collaborate well with other people. every day is hell

 No.10004

You need friends, someone inside who can get you a job. Finding shit on your own is almost impossible and very little rewarding.

 No.10015

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>>10004
This. Try to network and find people you can use as references. You might be able to sign up for volunteer work and that could be an extra boost that can help out a lot. Volunteer work looks good on resumes for two reasons: it shows you are active in the community (employers like this for obvious reasons related to company image) and it also helps connect you with a vast swath of resources. Alternatively, I don't know your particular situation, but take low paying menial jobs in the mean time to build yourself up. It sucks and will be hard but unforunately most employers look for experience more than anything else (to the point where even degrees can get thrown to the wayside). Getting employed, especially somewhere good, is a hard task but don't give up and believe in yourself. I believe in you.

 No.10020

dfd

 No.10022

>>10015
hi, thank you for the post. it helps

I work in IT basic admin work. Live free with parents. in the past 5 years I've had 5 jobs, only one of them around a year and a half, the rest were short and with small gaps in between. so I think my CV looks chaotic without even this huge gap.

I got certified in some cloud around this year, trying to present my current gap as some sort of upskilling. But no energy/willpower to do demo projects

Still I barely got one interview in the past half year so far.

I'm panicking alot all day ruminating all day, have this increasingly all encompassing sinking, very suffocating feeling I've dug myself a permanent hole basically. I could've and should've not quit jobs so often, I chose to quit my last place when I could've stayed put, cant believe how stupid I am lol. Amazing.


all I'm thinking of is the likely chance I'll remain stuck in a low-level job like some sort of divine punishment (I try not to be an asshole with others but its hard). it's terrifying like I'm losing my mind

Soon I will try find any work with help from the state, better than doing nothing like you said I just really hope it's not forever. It's very hard for me to accept the potential embarassment but there's nothing I can do about it better accept it
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 No.19[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

hi /n/, im curious about the NEETdom and wondering if you could answer some questions?

how long have you been a NEET?
was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
what do you do all day?
what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
how often do you get outside, if at all?
do you live independently or with parents?
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 No.9473

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>>9472
You don't, you show them the wall, picrel.
> How am I supposed to get experience for a job that requires the experience of that job to get?
Don't worry, sooner or later they will realize they won't have anybody qualified for the job since they haven't trained anybody. It will all burn in hell.

 No.9481

>>9472
If you're my bro, you lie and say you have it. There's a reason why he's now making quite a bit of money and I'm basically NEET again -_-

 No.9482

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Two years currently, plus 2 years between 2020 and 2022.

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Mental health problems from childhood s/a, and generally not liking other people. I find it impossible to talk to or trust anyone, even if I know I should.

>what do you do all day?
Scroll through imageboards/social media, read a lot of manga and play a lot of games (even if they aren't good..)

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I have a friend who texts me from time to time, I think she just finds the way I live interesting. I don't get it, but there's probably some novelty in listening to me ramble

>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Every few months. My mom has health issues and doesn't like going to checkups alone.

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 No.9660

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>>19
>how long have you been a NEET?
Long periods of on and off since I was 12
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Autism, social anxiety, not having friends, undiagnosed ADHD
>what do you do all day?
Browse Imageboards, watch other people live their life online, watch childish shows
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online this is as close as it gets. Offline sometimes my mother's friend's daughter visits
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Maybe every 2 weeks I will leave the house for an appointment or something
>do you live independently or with parents?
With parents, I'd die alone

 No.10021

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how long have you been a NEET?
2 years

was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
School was terriable, and life in general, no goal after HS and pretty much lost

what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
None in real life and a bit online in some random form

how often do you get outside, if at all?
Rarely at all and only when I go shopping

do you live independently or with parents?
Parents but it's been hard lately


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 No.9726[Reply]

I will never have a job.

I will never move out of my parents' house.

I will never have sex.

I will never have a girlfriend.

I will never have any friends.
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 No.9742

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>>9739
with NEETbux.
>>9740
without wagies id have to work, so im thankful for them.

 No.9908

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ok

 No.10017

I'm 33 and this is me minus the never having any friends part. I had a few friends in my teenage years until early adulthood. Jdimsa.

 No.10018

>>10017
>jdimsa
i miss when saying this was common

 No.10019

>>10018
I;m trying to bring it back.


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 No.9866[Reply]

I have a online friend with bpd that I'm afraid is becoming a neet. He has no girlfriend and no life outside his room i really think if he just had a girlfriend or someone to help him out irl so i came up with plan that i will simply transition and become his girlfriend to break him out of his depression and get his life on track.
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 No.9884

I see no way this plan can fail. Good luck bud.

 No.9893

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an imageboard classic: starting a mundane and almost legitimate sounding op off with something that sounds concerning about a close or online friend and then subtly leading it into to gay sex or relationships with an image that compliments the true intentions.
This is what I live for right here.

 No.9894

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Im the original op for the post i’m planning on recontacting him hopefully me and him can be friends again and i can help him then if it goes good enough ill propose to make the relationship romantic and I’ll begin transitioning, please wish me the best of luck.

 No.9904

>>9893
SKS-CHAN GA ICHIBAN SUKI DESU

 No.10013

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>>9904
love you too


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 No.9892[Reply]

I'm starting college very soon. It's past midnight, so right now, on my birthday, I'm now 18 years old. I still feel 16 though. I know all of you here have jobs, have it 'functioning'. Though I know a lot of you have it very tough. I don't know where to go or who to voice my concerns to. I feel like I'm not in the right place right now to use discord much, I never had much privacy in my life. But at the very least, I can post here, on this board. I can do at least that much, right?

God what do I even say? I keep typing something and removing it after. I'm just so scared. I don't know what to do. If I think to deeply on this, my heart sinks and I start to cry like a wimp. I never really talked to people. It's not even hard irl, I just feel like I don't have the space.

In high school I was always daydreaming of escaping and having complete control over my life by the time I was 18. I could drive around in my own car, work my own job, get my own money, and live for MYSELF. I don't know what to think or what to do anymore. I'm staring at the website of the College I'll be going to in a few months and all the bad memories from high school come flooding back. Nothing bad happened at all in high school. I got by and had friends. But the state I was in. I was falling apart. I remember crying myself to sleep each night. I didn't know what was going to happen in the future. I didn't want to live for someone else. I wanted to live for me. High school ended, and I was at home. Not alone, people still expected stuff of me, but it's fine. I would learn to drive, get a job, get money, and go to college. And just a few months later it's already time. I don't even have a drivers license, only a graduated permit or whatever. Jobs are not easy to get. So I'm just wasting away. All the time I'm just panicking looking at my screen. I don't want life to be like this. For how long does life have to be like this?

Even typing this now, I'm trying not to cry for a second because I don't want anyone to see me. I just want to live for myself only. With no one expecting anything of me. I wish some other kid could take my place and live in my stead, making my family proud and my friends happier. It's not even a desire to not exist. It's the desire to do things that make me happy, and for people to love me for it.

I took a glance at this board below, and I see so many people scared like me. It just makes me sadder. On discord my friends tell me howPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

 No.9906

Broski it seems like you need to calm down and go learn to drive or something

 No.9909

I want to give you a little piece of advice since you are so much younger than me. First, take a deep breathe and relax, you will be ok. Second, I want you to go outside somewhere quiet, maybe it is a park, lake, woods, somewhere that you can relax for a bit and have some peace and quiet. Finally, I want you to know this, life will keep going on day by day, whether we want it to or not. Make good use of your time because our time here is limited and don't over think your decisions because you can always change them later on. Just go with the flow my man.

 No.9910

Thank you. I'm so sorry I freaked out so much. I feel like typing away helped me. You helped me too, a little. I just need some time and space. Thank you

 No.10010

>>9910
No problem, you will get this all figured out one way or another, Sometimes it just takes some time.


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 No.8113[Reply]

ive been on here since like 2017 to 2019 where id just browse the boards and sometimes ask about random things since it was like the lowest point of my life, but now i only see posts from years ago? what happened, why is this web so slow now? where are you all? if youve gotten better, good for you ^_^ !
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 No.9621

>>9620
I hope this wasn't actually a ban. This new moderation style is beginning to give me shadows of the feeling I got when appleman took over lainchan.(USER WAS BANNED FOR THE COMEDIC TIMING)

 No.9622

….and me being a fucking idiot dumbass is besides the point.

 No.9623

>>9621
it was, im on vpn

 No.10007

>>9621
The previous administration was 1% less faggy

 No.10009

>>10007
That ban was issued while in the previous adminstration by the current admin.
Confusing huh?


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 No.9775[Reply]

I always hear that people here and there struggle with mental illiness but not me, I am a normal guy with no mental problems whatsoever, I have very normal reactions to people praising me or insulting me. I feel like an outcast due to how normal my life is.

I'm an accountant and I work at my dad's insurance company, I play basketball on the weekends and I have a car and I rent an apartment close to my job until I can afford to buy a house, I do my taxes in time and I have a girlfriend and a dog.

What is wrong with me?

 No.9777

*thinking*

 No.9778

>>9777
nice trips bro

 No.9779

well, first, you're here. so you're not that normal.

 No.10005

You're a top or bottom?

 No.10006

>>10005
top


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 No.9724[Reply]

i got a job at domininjas and the online training sucks

like i get physically exhausted just thinking about it

i mean i want to work to have something to do and to get money but it feels like im getting aged upwards 10 years every minute i spend staring at the course. like the guy on the carousel in something wicked this way comes by ray bradbury

it also really really scares me that this is a glimpse into the standard level of enjoyment i'll be feeling for the rest of my life. work is hell, and i doubt i'll ever find something fun and worth doing that also gets me fulfillment and money. i wish i could study but most major colleges don't like my kind of person very much and i tried going to a shitty backwater one and was tempted to shank the principal so theres that
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 No.9751

>>9749
what is your current job sks????? iwanna know… also which danganronpa character is your favourite

 No.9822

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ok update ive started delivering piss a… its nice having money i guess. depending on what sks thinks i should get ill either get a tsr box or the doctor who precons. or maybe i'll save my money. who knows.

but honestly having some semblance of routine back in my life has only served to make things feel by contrast more depressing and banal than before. its really scary to think that i'll never actually be happy. i think things would be a lot easier if i had some friends, but i don't really like socialising outside of card games all that much anyway, and i have a really hard time connecting with people if i don't a) have a common interest or b) i can't talk to them one-on-one. honestly i think having a girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever would really help but i think real people are kind of icky and there would automatically be the expectation of romantic or sexual escalation. plus outside of anime, doctor who, or danganronpa fanfiction, having a waifu or hasubando seems really corny and not actually at all fulfilling

i'll try going back to school or college next year, even if i will stick out like a sore thumb. but seeing how little difference having a job has made, i doubt learning or socialising will do much, either.

any advice? i would really love to know if there's literally any point in keeping my hopes up or if everything is just gonna be this shit forever.

 No.9828

>>9822
i also just genuinely really hate my life and i don't like myself enough to fix it

 No.9865

>>9828
I THINK MY boss has maybe fired me. shadow-fired me. like a shadow-ban. i'm so fucking sick of indians man he smells like shit and communicates awfully and makes it everyone else's problem but I feel like a failure nonetheless. i was hoping to have a bit more money for my trip to japan but he hasn't given me any shifts this week. i'm worried about letting the people down in my life. i'm so fucking pissed. i hate indians so fucking much dude.

 No.9891

just arrived in tokyo and the pajeet sent me a message saying that he's fired me. over the phone. with no reason given. my mother was super sympathetic but i'm still really sad. i think he was waiting to send me the message until after i had arrived. sadistic fuck. i'm so miserable.


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