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 No.19[View All]

hi /n/, im curious about the NEETdom and wondering if you could answer some questions?

how long have you been a NEET?
was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
what do you do all day?
what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
how often do you get outside, if at all?
do you live independently or with parents?
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 No.1944

>how long have you been a NEET?
2 years
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
being lazy and not going to uni
>what do you do all day?
play cs, watch anime, shitpost and masturbate
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I have epic internet friends but I'm friendless irl
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
once a week to buy food and stuff
>do you live independently or with parents?
independently but my parents give me money

 No.1975

>how long have you been a NEET?
3 years
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
aspergers,anxiety,,laziness
>what do you do all day?
listen to music,refresh imageboards,masturbate
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
none
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
every two weeks for therapy
>do you live independently or with parents?
live alone with my disabled mother both of us are on the bux

 No.1985

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>how long have you been a NEET?
7 years, longer in spirit.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
It's a difficult question… I want to say failure at school but I think it exacerbated deeper issues I had with depression and a growing dislike for life
>what do you do all day?
For the first few years I would play free MMOs, read imageboards and jerk off, but I no longer play MMOs (or games at all really) any more.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
None.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Extremely rarely. Once or twice a year.
>do you live independently or with parents?
Parents

 No.1986

>>1985
does that make you an actual hikki

 No.1996

>>1986

I suppose it does, anon, although I've always been somewhat uncomfortable with the label.

 No.1999

>how long have you been a NEET?
6 years

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

i'm lazy and don't want to work

>what do you do all day?

fap to rule 34, watch youtube videos and east fast food

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

IRC and skype, i have no IRL friends

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

3-5 times a day to buy fast food

>do you live independently or with parents?

independently

 No.2020

>how long have you been a NEET?
Graduated from highschool '15, so I guess a full year. I was already showing signs by missing days/even entire weeks from school during my senior year.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
undiagnosed anxiety disorder most likely, laziness on my part, I think I may be on the spectrum so it's harder for me to make friends with people and i'm over obsessive when it comes to my special interest
>what do you do all day?
skype with online friends, draw, and play video games
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
online mostly since I rarely get out of my house. Though I do see my irl best friend every once in a while and hang out
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
maybe once or twice a week
>do you live independently or with parents?
with my mom atm

 No.2023

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>how long have you been a NEET?
3yrs, after finishing higher education. Basically attained an equivalent to GCSEs. Missed out on 99% of education because of bad health.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Due to chronic illness, I'm virtually unemployable. Intense fatigue makes it very difficult to maintain relationships outside my immediate family. I don't like it.
>what do you do all day?
Game dev (RPG Maker natch), video games, drawing, chores, internet stuff, shitposting, looking after our pets (I have a ball python and our cat is a shared pet).
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Offine, none aside from family members. Online, no one I really know the name of. Imageboards is where I get most of my social interaction. I used to have friends (well, my brother's friends really) but I've pretty much lost contact. That makes me feel guilty and I don't know why I don't put more effort into it. Anxiety and fatigue mostly, I think. Everyone runs on a different clock than me.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Every few days. I like going outside, but it's an ordeal.
>do you live independently or with parents?
With my parents. Living independently would be tough and at the moment there's really no point in leaving. If I can somehow become financially, physically and mentally stable, I would like to live by myself someday. I fear it would be very difficult and lonely, though. My parents don't mind me being around (for the record, I'm in my mid 20s so I appreciate their patience) so it's not like living here is painful. It can be a bit stifling, though.

tl;dr Chronic disease is a bitch. I wish I had cancer instead.

 No.2024

>>2023
>chronic illness
same here but i got (mostly) better. spent most of my adult life wandering between part time employment and halfassed attempts at qualifications. at this point i figure it's not even worth trying; even healthy people can't make it. maybe after enough forced comedy show viewing i'll find the will to tackle life again.

>how long have you been a NEET?

as long as i've been sick, so ~a decade, with pauses.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
see above
>what do you do all day?
right now just taking care of myself. i'm in the midst of interviewing for a new job but not getting my hopes up. i like working and would like an excuse to get out of the house.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
i have friends but mostly thru the internets. i find face to face interaction very dull.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
often enough
>do you live independently or with parents?
i get bux but they'll chip in as well.

 No.2026

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>how long have you been a NEET?
2/3 years

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

Moved to a new city when I graduated high school to live with my father. He didn't and hasn't helped me very much in getting a job and it's just hard in general. I applied for jobs for a while but kinda gave up. I have bursts of doing it but I never get any calls. I got a job on sight once but my dad said it was too far away for him to drive me.

>what do you do all day?

Talk to people online, watch anime or youtube, read wikipedia, listen to music, fuck around online, sometimes study japanese, draw, make some shitty meme music, occasionally play games, spend time with my imaginary boyfriend

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

None IRL except for my dad and his girlfriend. Online I lurk a bunch of places and talk on VC regularly.

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

Sometimes not for weeks or months. Ocassionally I go on walks. I need to start doing it again.

>do you live independently or with parents?

With parents

 No.2027

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Almost 3 years now.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Not really. I was pissed off at my parents in my late teens so I moved out to live with my older brother and his gf. They pretended to care for me, but my depression ended up getting way worse. I ended up in the hospital a couple of times and they couldn't handle it, so they sent me back to this shithole. I was on some bullshit meds, prozac I think, and that gave me all sorts of new problems. I've never had anxiety before taking that, and even though it's been two years since I stopped, I still have really bad anxiety. I couldn't finish high school, ended up dropping out and here I am do this day.
>what do you do all day?
Video games, chatting with friends, roleplaying online, playing with my cat
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online I have a plethora of internet friends, and a discord group I hang out with sometimes. Lately though, we aren't as close. I think it had a lot to do with basically everything there wanting to bang me, but after they realized how terrible I am they all scattered. I still have a couple of close friends that I talk to every day and a bunch of acquaintances I chat with about random bullshit
Offline, I don't have any interactions at all except with my parents. Those aren't really conversations, though.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Not that often. I go outside when I have to, to feed the dogs or when my mom takes me out to go to the store
>do you live independently or with parents?
I live with my mom and dad. I wish I lived alone so I wouldn't be constantly reminded of how much of a fuck up I am, but I honestly don't think I could survive without someone taking care of me.

It feels good to get this shit out. Thanks for listening.

 No.2028

>>2027

>MGS2 Raiden for image

god-tier taste.

Nothing else to add really.

 No.2030

>>2027
don't you feel ashamed infront of your parents and relatives? One day they will kick you out.

 No.2038

>>19
>how long have you been a NEET?
7 months

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

Severe lack of motivation to do anything and social anxiety. While in high school I couldn't get my grades that high and occasionally ill excel in some shitty way but in the end depression hit and I realized that this wont get me anywhere.

>what do you do all day?

Visit imagebords, watch anime, and play some Video games.
Specifically I like to play Team fortress 2 with friends most of the time.

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

Online: I have online interaction with friends, I have my own group of friends that i get on to hang out with every day. We even have drama but its not shitty drama like normies have. Im a really aggressive person on the internet and Im just one of those trolls and dicks that like to call people names but offline I dont do that.
Offline: Interaction I have with offline people is very limited. Im generally really polite to people at supermarkets, business and ect, but I cant and do not want to converse in actual conversation with people my age. If i try depression will sink in so I just do business and get done with it.

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

Only if necessary, such as If i have a appt with a doctor or need groceries.

>do you live independently or with parents?

I live with my mother. I wish i had a very easy job to support myself or to help my mother but Im too accustomed to this lifestyle that its too hard to break from. I see no benefits for getting a job other than for buying anime shit and feeding myself so I feel nice living with my mother.

 No.2841

>how long have you been a NEET?
1 year
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Don't feel like doing anything
>what do you do all day?
Video games, anime, manga
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
None
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Once a month
>do you live independently or with parents?
With parents

 No.2855

>>37
Thats really good, post it when you're done please

 No.2871

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>how long have you been a NEET?
4 years this year.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
I've always struggled with anxiety/depression all my life. I was diagnosed bipolar around highschool and it's just gone gradually downhill since then.
>what do you do all day?
Huh, I mostly spend my days with my other NEET friend. We usually play games together and stuff. Music, watching videos or anime strung together in the day, too.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I talk to my mom every now and then. All my interaction is done online. I do enjoy friends, they make my life so much more bearable.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Probably once every 2 weeks? Only for chores, if at all.
>do you live independently or with parents?
I live with my mother.

 No.2872

>>171

I wish I could get to know you. Shame this post is so old..

 No.2893

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>how long have you been a NEET?
3 years, close to 4 years.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
A mix of social anxiety, laziness, depression,a lack of direction in life and no motivation for anything. After I barely finished high school I thought I was just take a gap year to do whatever, but yet here I am 3 years later.
>what do you do all day?
Daydream, watch random shit on the net, browse a few imageboards, play some video games and listen to some random podcast or some other white noise to stop me dwelling on things too much. I used to read a bit but my visual snow has gotten worse over the past few months and makes it too much effort to do anymore.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I chat to some groups in Discord I'm comfortable talking to but I feel like I've been growing apart from them for a while now. I also lurk in a few other groups but that's about it. Offline I mostly speak to my mum for a while and rarely my brother whenever he pops around.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Very rarely if we need milk or something I go to the shops.
>do you live independently or with parents?
My mum. I think she feels guilty that she has mostly focused on my brother over me so just gives me a free pass.

 No.2894

>how long have you been a NEET?
September, though I have been NEET for great lengths of time before, sometimes even years
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Mental ilness, dropping out of school, agoraphobia, depression, all the usual stuff
>what do you do all day?
Channing, meming, gaming, watching films/series
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online? Only chans. Offline I have a friend I see once in a while, also a NEET
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Once a week typically
>do you live independently or with parents?
Parents

 No.2901

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Almost 2 years now.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Selective mutism (fear of talking to people), Internet addiction.
>what do you do all day?
I spend most of my free time on the Internet.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online: Steam friends, people I work on open source projects with. Offline: I have a mentor helping me find a job, I see her once a week. I also do volunteering for a mental health charity and helping other young people in similar situations find a job.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
I now try to force myself to go outside and talk to people at least once a day to get over my anxiety.
>do you live independently or with parents?
Mom and grandmother.

 No.3077

>how long have you been a NEET?
I have been a Hikki/Neet/Freeter for about 10 years now .. Man, time sure does fly
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
I had a lot of potential up until my third year of high school (or well, my countrys equivalent to high school) when I got an extreme anxiety/psychosis attack due to past abuse and growing up in a family with a history of severe mental illness. For years I had just tried to shrug it off, until I finally hit my breaking point. I fucked up school and graduated with piss poor grades, I alienated all my friends except one and I also pretty much destroyed my life and my future. I was off the system for about 4 years before I finally tried to get back into society, and by then, it was aparently to late. I am almost 30 now and ive been trying since I was 24 to get some kind of stable career and life, but I just cant seem to get it to work.
>what do you do all day?
I draw and do 3d modeling while working a weekend job to earn money for atleast basic expenses. Ive been trying to go back to school to study something creative such as game design or art, but in all theese years, only two high school level courses have accepted me and that was when I was about 23-24 years old. For the past 2 years, I have applied to a school for game art, but they keep rejecting me due to my poor grades and presumably bad portfolio. Being 30 soon, I guess i might as well give up on it.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I only have one single friend irl. He was also a bit socially akward for most of his 20s but he is becoming more and more integrated into society, so I guess ill end up completely alone. I dont have any real online friends atm.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
I go out for jogs and walks every now and then. I also have to leave the house to go to my weekend job.
>do you live independently or with parents?
I rent a tiny place from my friend. Its isolated, but atleast I get to be alone to work on my art and such. I guess ill stay until my friend throws me out or until I die.

 No.3083

>how long have you been a NEET?
About 2 years now.

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

Mentall illness, autism, depression, anxiety, lonely, my only best friend left me cus of how retarded I am, you know the usual

>what do you do all day?

play vidya, watch anime, go on the internet, think about how much I hate myself

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

online i talk to some people on steam, offline I guess I talk to some people at school

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

only when I need to go somewhere by any means, usually school

>do you live independently or with parents?

with parents

 No.3084

>>3083
>school
Do you know what NEET means?

 No.3086

>how long have you been a NEET?
2 years
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Developed a panic disorder during uni, ignored it, blew up on me when I graduated. The job market where I live isn't doing me any favours.
>what do you do all day?
Programming, surfing youtube, random computer projects, housework and vidya of course.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Online - Image boards
Offline - Every now and again I see the few friends I keep in touch with. One of my friends is a fellow NEET who I see more often.
> how often do you get outside, if at all?
Almost everyday I try to force myself to do some sort of exposure therapy. Normally walking, driving, going to the grocery store for errands.
> do you live independently or with parents?
With parents

 No.3132

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>how long have you been a NEET?
one year soon, tho during my 4 years in college I was living the lifestyle already, skipped classes that were not mandatory, didn't socialize with anyone

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

I didn't network during college, so I just finished and I was without direction.

>what do you do all day?

shitpost and play videogames
used to work out but last 6 months been lacking motivation and am doing it even less each month, skipped last three weeks

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

online, various chans, don't like discord, I speak with people in WoW just to set up raids
offline, I talk some with my parents during meals, once a month or so some old school friends hang out, some of them are also neet

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

havn't left home for two weeks
used to leave almost everyday to go to the gym 6 months ago, went down to 2 days a week, i'd really like to get some motivation to go back at it

>do you live independently or with parents?

parents

 No.3136

>>19
>how long have you been a NEET?
16 Months

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

I wanted to find a job that was higher than minimum wage at first, then I decided to try to find something that wasn't fast food, 16 months later I still haven't had any luck.
There's barely any jobs where I live (small town, USA) and it's also become so bad with crime, violence, and drugs I'm terrified to have any social interactions with majority of the people in my town.

>what do you do all day?

Well I just recently finally got my sleeping schedule back on track, I used to stay up all night playing video games, watching anime, browsing chan sites and other parts of the web, fapping, watching informational / educational videos. Now I plan on trying to learn more about how to do things on my own and possibly take some online courses that are free as well as try to learn another language (probably Japanese)

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

Online - Chan sites, random people on various websites, then a very few number of people actually talk to me on Facebook.
Offline - I usually only spend time with my family, my girlfriend when she's actually home or with the group of people I play Yugioh with. (main reason why I still play it)

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

Once or twice a week if I'm lucky.

>do you live independently or with parents?

I live with my girlfriend, it feels like shit because she pretty much takes care of me and I feel so useless like I can't do anything.
I feel if something doesn't change soon, I'll be packing my stuff and moving into a storage room at my grandmas.
I mean if I had a job we also wouldn't live in this fucking nightmare I call an apartment. It's a little one bedroom with people above us and they are LOUD it's almost unbearable to live here with not enough space and dealing with hearing noise and creaks 24/7. My depression has been getting the better of me lately. I need a real life change and push myself to muster up the motivation to get me out of this.

 No.3171

>how long have you been a NEET?
6 and a half years, complete hiki for the last 5.

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

Mental health issues, mainly ASD & Anxiety (Both social and general). Was on track for theoretical physics degree but couldn't cope with the stress/socialising/expectations. Started smoking weed to cope and ended up dropping out on my last year.

>what do you do all day?

Mostly PC, occasional chores. Ususally either gaming, programming (but I haven't the motivation anymore), and reading random things to pass the time.

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

Several friends on TeamSpeak and Skype who I talk to. One RL friend from school but he lives far away so I've only met up with him once in all this time. Only one other hiki friend.

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

Rarely. Trying to a bit more now even if I don't have a real reason to. It seems so surreal out there after all this time, so it takes a lot of mental energy to even take a walk.

>do you live independently or with parents?

With my mother. She's sympathetic to my mental health so doesn't mind. Worries for my future, though not as much as I do.

 No.3181

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Kinda hard to say as I have been trying to do something with my life, failing and eventually going back to the scratch all time. Oficially, the last time I've tried to do something was in 2015, but I'm a NEET de facto since 2011, when I dropped out school.


>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?

I don't know, I've never liked to socialize and I've never been interested in "normal" things. You know, maybe I (and us) just wasn't made to live in society. Maybe there are "lone humans" who rejects society just like there are lone wolves who rejects their packs. I always got nervous in social situations, reaching to the point of sweating and shaking when talking to strangers. But everything really went downhills after my father dies and I had to left school to take care of my mother.

>what do you do all day?

Housework, walking outside, gaming, internet (animus, chans, porn, this sort of thing).


>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

Offline, pretty much only my family. Online, I have plenty of friends, particularly from steam. I'm very grateful for that: these people are my only source of contact with the outside world and the only thing keeping me from commiting sudoku.

>how often do you get outside, if at all?

Usually once a day.

>do you live independently or with parents?

Mother.

 No.3186

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Over a year now. I was a NEET once before too which lasted for a year before I tried college.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
I had a mental breakdown. Now I'm just lazy, apathetic/depressed, or maybe I'm a coward
>what do you do all day?
Gardening, reading sometimes, sleeping, exercise, watching films, playing music. When my depreshun gets bad then I don't do anything except for sleep and vegetate. I have to force myself to do things.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Used to sit on IRC, now I just chat with a couple of old 4chan friends on skype once in a while.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
It's summer right now so I go out into the garden almost everyday. I leave the 'property' maybe once a week to go for a walk.
>do you live independently or with parents?
With my parents, I'm a worthless leech

 No.3189

>how long have you been a NEET?
3 years
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
I wanted to study math in college but exposure to that level of study made me exhausted and ineffective. I also have trouble going into public without a family member.
>what do you do all day?
Study my fields of interest at the pace of an iceberg and try to make progress in spiritual development. When it gets tiring again i watch game shows or old movies on TV to relax.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
I post on discussion boards and write text documents to myself. Offline my loneliness is abated by my father and sister who i see at least once a day to retrieve dinner from.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
When they eat out i usually go along, about twice a week. I also try to go into the yard and pull weeds a few times a week if it's quiet out.
>do you live independently or with parents?
With parent

 No.3235

The reason I'm a neet is because I have this awful paranoia that people want to kill me and television news are talking about me, it's irrational but I can't stop feeling that way.

 No.3375

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>how long have you been a NEET?
Technically forever? I never went to school, worked or anything. I'm incapable of being productive.
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
Dysfunctional childhood.
>what do you do all day?
Post on image boards, listen to albums, watch films, read manga, watch youtube videos, watch anime, play old SNES/N64 games, write in my dream journal or write stories, play piano, sing, watch weather videos of storms or nature videos, make youtube videos about weather/storms/nature/animals/insects/nightwalks and dreams, make youtube videos where I create sort of short film length edits featuring my music combining all sorts of art I've made that capture a comfy/surreal/depressing feeling, talk to myself, pet my cats, obsessively draw people getting progressively older (several hours per day), make up new worlds on the spot and live out stories inside of them along with simple visual guides through maladaptive daydreaming and my own adaptation of sleepwalking, talk to the evil god that lives inside of my brain.
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
Haven't had human communication or contact offline outside of parents in 10 years. Online I only talk to fellow NEET/hikikomori but I don't have any real friends. Mostly just talk to people who watch my videos and strangers on image boards centered around my hobbies.
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
Only nightwalks. I've gone years without leaving my room, but right now maybe once every 6 months.
>do you live independently or with parents?
Parent.

 No.3613

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>How long have you been a neet??

4 years

>Was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?


Got fired from my job that i had from 2009-2013 and now i have no desire to work to be honest and a few years earlier i was a hikki because of my social anxiety bullying and my autism
>What do you do all day?

Shitpost watch movies and anime play video games fap

>What form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?


Parents imageboards some irl friends


>How often do you get outside, if at all?


Only once or twice a day

>Do you live independently or with parents?


independently

 No.3614

>>3613
The thing I always wonder is - how can you survive independently while NEET?

I was terrified of going outside, but the reality that I was about to be homeless (and dead) has forced me to work.

 No.3615

>>3614
Independently wealthy (savings or investments), or more likely, getting money from some other source (usually parents or benefits or some kind)

 No.3619

>>3616
It's because your parents had to get that money from somewhere. You're taking something from them without giving anything back. Selfishness is generally looked down upon for obvious reasons. What does is say about a person when they're incapable of doing what millions of others can? I'm not blaming you or anything, I don't know your circumstances, but at least try to look at it from an average person's point of view.

 No.3623

>>3620
To me it sounds like your dad is fucked in the head. It seems like mental illness runs in your family. Let me tell you what a normal person's life is like, because it's not that. First of all they go to school as a child on a daily basis. They know basic hygiene and toiletry, "skills", by the age of ten. They study for tests and get decent grades. The majority also do some kind of extracurricular activity like learning how to play a musical instrument or athletics. They go to college based on their grades and financial situation(a lot of people get bank loans), choose a profession, take classes to get a degree, and try to do some internships related to their chosen field at the same time. After their education is done they find a job and an affordable place to live. This is what mortgages are for. They are then an independent person. They pay for all of their living expenses and taxes. This is what it is to be a well-adjusted person who is not a leech. If I was you, I'd get the fuck away from my bat shit insane family. You should have been able to brush your fucking hair before your balls dropped. You have no reason to be thankful to your dad for teaching you a kindergarten skill at nineteen. Get away from them. Get some money from somewhere and skip town without a trace on a bus. Get your life into your control. Before that you should probably try to get some kind of an education. Knowledge is power. You have a computer right? I don't know, call the cops or something. Clearly your family is fucked up in some manor. There's difference between living in ghandi-eaque poverty an being a regular human being.

 No.3630

>>3624
>it was the only school my dad would pay for despite all attempts to explain to him how shit it was and of course there was literally no way i would go to any other school because how am i going to afford it even with my meager "life savings" and everyone discouraging me from going

Get a bank loan, go to a real college despite what your parents tell you, and when you have a proper education, go to a town with a more thriving economy. If you're really so poor then you can probably get some kind of benefits like a scholarship or welfare or something. Do some research on this. You're already an adult. Also, try to start capitalizing your Is, using apostrophes, and putting periods at the end of a sentence. You don't have to write like you have a mental illness if you understand basic grammatical rules.

 No.3634

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I'm a neet because of my skin color. white people keep oppressing me

 No.3640

>>3630
Actually, the joke is on you, my friend. In my spare time, I run a business selling paintings I created to local people. This is my third business. It's easy to start a business if you just change your reality.

 No.3644

>>3640
You still don't have a proper college education and you still don't make enough money to support yourself. I don't get why you're acting like i'm insulting you. It's a fact that despite being an adult, you are not financially independent. How many paintings would it take to pay for a private college? You'll be eighty by the time you get to that number, and by that point no company will hire you. Take a bank loan.

 No.3658

16 years NEET, im 38

rocky mtn spotted fever as a infant (13mo) has caused bad motion control in my legs and constant nerve pain. injury , death of wife

i garden, try to walk often (took years to start enjoying the out of doors) play games, read, try to be creative including making boardgames and d&d (im a dm). i break down old electronics and harvest metals as well as pc or tablet repair. electronics once was a hobby is now a major source of my income. i have a good friend that owns a board game store and a chain of game stores so i can get work at his warehouses under the table, super flexible hours and the fact he is a friend is the only reason i can do it.

i have hardly any social activity. i had to drop most of my friends since they are on drugs. my d&d group is a ggood social/creative outlet and i still have a few close friends . i dont date ( since my son lost his mother i am a large part of his personal identity. so i stay single until he is older and its healthy for him.) also i dont experience the full range of human emotion anymore. so i dont experience boredom. my 11 year old son with me at home all day. so we play alot of multiplayer games together.

i force myself top go out and walk my dog and do simple gardening , paint the house. constantly cleaning the house .. if i dont move around or exercise at all my anxiety peaks from stress induced by nerve pain.

i own my own home, i also get death benefits from my wifes death. Thank god i live in a capitalistic country and can make money instead of living off others. that provides me with self value and esteem. im white and male so i dont get hardly the same income benefits as a minority with social programs. at first i didnt make any money and was a drain on my countryman and family. over the last 8 years i have really worked hard to change that and my depression has lifted to normal levels!

 No.3661

good luck paying back those student loans, bank shill

 No.3662

>how long have you been a NEET?
since 2010
>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?
grad highschool in 2010
had to stop working because of allergies from nose-hairs bugging me. my hair brows very fast and thick.
>what do you do all day?
sleep for 9 - 14hours
look at porn for an hour/bathroom stuff every morning
leave aimp/discord/steam running while reading chans/doing things from backlog
>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?
chans/discord/steam
family members
>how often do you get outside, if at all?
every 2weeks for food trips
>do you live independently or with parents?
moved into my own place JAN 2017


discord; flint#8647
steam; nuct

 No.3671

>>3614
> how can you survive independently while NEET?

I get money from the government.

 No.5614

>>45

I suppose it's a bit off topic but I finally made it out.

I hope some of you others are doing better as well.

 No.5615

>>5614
Congratulations, anon!

 No.5616

>>5614 nice man!

 No.5630

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>how long have you been a NEET?

About 5 months now

>was there a reason for you becoming a NEET?


I have zero ambitions and no sense of direction. Also, I'm a brainlet and that if I were to work I'd probably be stuck working at a supermarket for the rest of my life.

>what do you do all day?


Go to the gym,read,shitpost,and cum

>what form of social interaction do you have, online and offline?

how often do you get outside, if at all?

Social interactions: Parents, siblings, and image boards. I go outside everyday, just mindlessly walking around and window shopping. I also do a bit of cardio in order to stay in shape.

>do you live independently or with parents?


With parents. Though, I'm not sure how long I can keep this up for.



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