/hikki/ - NEET / Advice

I wish I knew ;_; I assume that modern NEETs have moved into more secluded and private online communities and no longer wish to communicate publicly. That's my best guess.

Hope you are feeling okay today and tommorow and every day after that 💖

zoomer and newfaggot here. i dont know what happened with this chan's culture but i wish it returns to its previous state or that you find a new site to frequent. i would like to see this type of boards with a good frequency of posts, unfortunately im way too late

neets. net seems to be a popular site but its isnt as fun as frequenting hikki or neet boards. its mostly an incel forum over a neet one, but you may enjoy it somehow. Here is a drawing for you, i hope it cheer you up

Hope you are doing well now, after you've passed through what you consider as the lowest point of your life. Don't forget to drink water!

i'm not even old but the modern web really confuses me
is all good stuff locked behind private discords now? because I feel like that's true and everyone who's bad at socializing is doing really rough right now

>>8120
It really is hard. Most boards are dead, and most public discord servers/irc/telegram chats are pretty similar (i.e., /pol/, incel places, just pornography spam, or are social justice minded 16 year olds). It feels pretty hopeless bros… Do any of you have any stories of hope for making friends irl or online after failing to make any during school?

>>8119
Ngl, that neet site is kinda funny

good observation, i usually come here when it's enough new content but ive been coming here less and less, well, i know it's not the case but i hope that people are just unHikking, and well, as 8121 said, what if we're now getting to memey/shitpostey to take anything seriously, it actually would be veeery insightful, gotta note it for future research.

>>8123
you re right

barely been coming here since they closed /n/. i just chill on discord now

always lurking.

I mostly lurk, but I do post from time to time though.

I write up a post but get hesitent so I never click the reply button and go back to lurking

>>8156
92% of users:

>>8156
>write a 20 line long post
>read it carefully
>enjoy my own post "ah yes this is a well written and thought out post"
>delete the post and continue lurking
literally me

>>8145
sauce of the image anon?

>>8158
I relate to that a lot actually I think this falls under the 1% rule as well. The reason could be completely different for you but I typically dont feel like my contributions are worth enough to be added to a thread honestly

>>8159
probably, i think it's the same for me + feeling that "it's not worth it". i should engage more though like now, to set up an example so that people don't feel the same lol

>>8159
Not the above anon, but the artist for the image is @23057 on twitter. Though the original post appears to have been deleted. In my brief search I could not find the image on their twitter, pixiv, artstation, or instagram.

Since I'm here I'll also add on my thoughts. I'm very new here, first found this place mid last year where I lurked a bit and don't think I posted. Now been lurking over the past couple weeks, replied a few times. I meant to come back earlier and though about it with relative frequency but wasn't able to get myself to do it.

II like these smaller chans because posts are slow, as a result making it easy to read.

>>8121
I have a two year long friendship with a person I met on Yume 2kki online (the Ubuu version) Hujile I know you'll see this and yes thank you please keep it up. Hopefully you'll find the frens you are looking for as cheesy as it sounds look in unusual places or little places you enjoy, you can find you might jive and get along with more people than you might expect

>>8163
Not a Hujile but may you find friendship and happiness. We love you!~

>>8164
Thanks I hope you are finding happiness and fulfillment in your life too Anon. I hope everyone here does

>site population barely posts because they don't feel like their "worth it"
What do you call this condition?

If this thread has taught me anything its that I should post more instead of deleting posts. But there are so many small slow sites out there with identical boards. So then it becomes a question of where do you post? And if you were to post multiple threads on all of them well then that makes you just like that tea poster.

>>8113


You will never be a girl , tranny(And you will never be welcome , silly)

>>8167
THANK YOU BASED MOD, so sick of having to deal with triggered freaks like banned anon

>>8119
I'm new too so idk much about the site or whatever but I checked out the discord of this site allegedly, I think it has like 1k+ members(and obviously very little content and fast paced chat with not much substance to it). I'm thinking this is the type of shit that kills websites and forums pretty frequently.

For little experience, people too shy or scared to post something thinking is not worth it or is gonna pissed someone, staying like a ghostly lurker or eventually leaving.

>>8172
stay the fcuk off of dc my guy. faggiest site ever. tried to hold a discussion and got told to shut up. you're being told to kill yourself every five seconds, being yelled at for apparently being an sjw faggot, or you're getting banned for a percieved violation of somebody's hugbox(Such as THIS hugbox.)

>>8159
sorry, i probably could have told you the sauce a couple years ago but now i'll just have to go with what >>8161 said

>>8172
the uboachan discord fucking sucks tbh

>>8113
Ever since I began seeking out NEETspaces in 2018, I've noticed that they've been increasingly populated by personalities which you could find in any school or work environment only less successful and more bitter or apathetic. I've noticed less people who totally reject or due to peculiar paranoias, hysterias, complexes, or heterodox spiritual beliefs live outside of regular decorum so as to totally shock you with their expectations. I encounter less bold people who assert themselves transgressively and then grapple with their intrinsic neet outsider identities. And more people who wallow into calling themselves neet and half-heartedly laugh at and repeat old memes with a sense of accomplishment. More people who speak about their mental health to convince themselves of their ineptitude and with the fear that someone in a worse position will reveal how embarrassingly fine they are. More standard bullies who mock their half-friends by measuring them up against standard societal norms. On top of that since 2020 NEET aesthetics, bedroom-hermits, hiki's etc have been totally co-opted by flatly normal people who would never settle these spaces anyway, so there's no longer much of a basis for NEET culture as it once was. Though there are definitely a lot of discords filled with NEETS, I don't think many people are hanging out in NEET discords.

Let's just say… I didn't stick around with the right people…

Im so fucking tireddddddddddAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA i speedram yume nikki in 8 minutes and had been laying dowm for 3 days straight. Pls.help.me.

>>8166
I'll take the tea freak over the sheer nothingness that plagues most smaller imageboards nowadays. At least by posting something, no matter how inane it might seem, there's a chance a conversation could be started.