Im kinda lonely neurodivergent queer person with habit of shutting myself in and isolate from any communication. I have 2 online friends and only one irl i talk with almost everyday and they're only reason i can come outside. We're very close enough to be

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Anonymous 04/05/25 (Sat) 20:30:45 No.9384

Im kinda lonely neurodivergent queer person with habit of shutting myself in and isolate from any communication. I have 2 online friends and only one irl i talk with almost everyday and they're only reason i can come outside. We're very close enough to be more than friends but less than lovers and my main problem with getting that close with people is that i get obsessed overtime. Only reason im not rotting in my home is them and i can even say the reason i didn't committed suicide since my mental health still in very shitty condition. However, unlike me they more social and ofc got more irl friends they spend time with. Selfishness about me getting upset when im not being able to spend time with them sometimes, reason which of em being already busy with someone. We set boundaries we're never going to be more than we're but feeling unexpectedly upset hearing them talk about having feelings for someone else. That starts to sounds very incel im very upset with myself, they upset with me too. Im afraid of ruining our friendship with that stupid thing caused by me, im suppressing my feelings as hard as i can and still hurt them. I don't want to think that termination of our friendship should be the solution

nama3!i4ggqOCXfI 04/06/25 (Sun) 02:10:20 No.9385

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very relatable post especially on the obsession bit.
are you genuinely attracted to them or perhaps its mere infatuation?

Anonymous 04/06/25 (Sun) 02:31:48 No.9386

>>9384
are you a russky perchance? that really must suck then…

Anonymous 04/06/25 (Sun) 05:07:01 No.9387

>>9385
Infatuation is more suitable. I liked them from the first year of our friendship, i didn't told them about feelings, so they think i like them as they like me

Anonymous 04/09/25 (Wed) 06:10:16 No.9390

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I feel you, I fall in love too easily and honestly sometimes I get obsessive over other people. The only thing I can recommend is put some distance and try to keep conversations light and cordial with the person. I also don't think its incel to be jealous over your friend spending time with others and not you and how that effects you. Obviously its not a good thing though and you may be expecting too much over the friendship. I find the best sort of relationships with people is usually mutual interest, and unfortunately some of the people we want to court may not be interested in us. It really sucks, especially when you find out you share a lot of interests with those people but a lot of times it is what it is. Maybe they'll change over time, don't expect it though, and focus on yourself and maybe breaking out of your shell a bit towards different, trustworthy people even if its just online. Find ways to cope without them being there in your life.

Anonymous 04/11/25 (Fri) 15:10:04 No.9391

i hope the best for you, ubuu