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 No.8568

Not even referring to having deep conversations with people, just talking about opening your mouth and speaking a few words.

I remember when I lived with my dad I could probably go days without uttering anything. We both spent 90% of our time on our PCs and had quite a silent agreement to not disturb each other, talking more over text messages when we needed than in-person.
It was quite comfortable even if it was probably when I was at my lowest mentally. weird thing to miss.
Do you talk with people on voice chats? Have any pets to talk to? Cats are very good listeners.

 No.8569

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Even on textchat, I like keeping my own thoughts to me, thinking that is worthless any word that come out of my mouth. That or my brain deleted the system32 of how to communicate with any living thing. In this point I prefer to not talk the innecesary and just focus on my own thoughts.

 No.8570

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>>8569
Relatable. I'm glad you could make the reply at least! Many times I have written a full thought-out message only to look at it, delete it and close the tab after figuring out my thoughts weren't worth it in the face of many imaginary repercussions.

 No.8574

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i talk/mutter to myself quite often, also yeah ill vc if people want.

 No.8575

I've slowly become a mute over the past few years. Last year I was reading a book in public and a visibly autistic guy was curious about what I was reading and I just stared at nothing in silence trying to find words, and when I did it came out as a shallow/pretentious mess and even he was perturbed by me or thought I was retarded.

 No.8576

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>>8575
I do haved some similar experiencies like that years ago. As someone with Asperger Syndrome, I just fall to the conclusion that being mute 99,9% of the time is my best option to not bother others or bother me, and just enjoying doing my things. May not be the most healthy thing, but whatever.

 No.8577

I'm pretty stoic and quiet. I'd rather not say anything than risk offending people or rubbing them up the wrong way.

 No.8582

>>8568
Sounds like a good memory. I would have liked to grow up in the rose coloured echo of it I'm imagining.

I never go a day without speaking a word, but I say absolutely as little as I can. A few one word answers and ritual nothings, and I hate even that. The solitude I'm given is already far more than I deserve though.

 No.8598

For some reason, people really don't like you if your quiet. It didn't feel so bad in the past but these days people seem to really hate you if your quiet and lonesome. They think you are bad person or a pervert. It seems to really disgust them.

My professor in college once told us about his time in rural China. He used to sit alone and eat because he was the only Westerner and his Chinese wasn't that good. When people saw this they'd go out of their way to sit with him because they felt bad. They'd try and talk in English even if they didn't understand it. In Western society, if a person is sat by themselves they usually get stigmatized. Makes you wonder what old world values we''ve lost.

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I don't really like talking, but there's this thing that "people don't know what i want to communicate if i don't speak it"
I just like being in the vibe, yk. I don't like being questioned of what am i doing when it is clear as fuck what i'm doing
Even in VC's is the same thing, but most of the times i can go non-verbal and friends would go 'OK :)' and keep going
>>8598 You're so right and reading it it justs… hurts.



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