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Trans Mega Thread Seisatsu ## Owner 08/13/24 (Tue) 18:48:49 No.8376[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

Trans Mega Thread!

So, let's try something here.

Frequently a trans-related topic comes up in a thread here in /hikki/, and the thread will quickly get derailed by malicious comments or by the diversion in topic just taking over. There is clearly a lot of interest in discussing trans topics, as well as a lot of unwelcome interest in shutting them down. But they do tend to take over threads either way. So, while we figure out how to handle this from a moderation standpoint, I am going to make a trans discussion mega thread here to contain such conversations. This might end up being permanent. If you find that a thread makes you want to discuss a trans-related topic, make a post here instead.

Rules 6 and 7 are strictly enforced in this thread, and violations will result in longer bans. However, uncomfortable questions are also allowed within reason.

Also if a trans topic starts to derail a thread from now on we may delete those posts.

Also Sei is trans. So I might make some posts in here as well.

Update 11/04/2024: When the conversation in the trans thread veers into whether transness is even a thing that exists, that will be considered an attempt at derailment. This thread isn't for you. It is specifically a containment thread for people who want to talk about transness from the starting assumption that the topic itself and the kind of identity it discusses is valid. Please keep that in mind.

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Anonymous 10/03/25 (Fri) 12:18:44 No.9745

>>9744
i know, but i will continue to bray and stamp my feet over my predicament out of spite

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Welcome to the NHK v2 aka The Rules Seisatsu ## Owner 02/04/16 (Thu) 22:47:24 No.172[Reply]

From now on, the >>>/rec/ board should generally be used for conversations about recovery from NEETism. This is not a hard rule but you are likely to have a better experience.

Seeing as absolutely everyone misread the /hikki/ rules sticky and used it to draw apocalyptic conclusions about the death of all that was good about /n/, here's a less flippant sticky with less room for ambiguity, in the form of a Q&A. We've also made some concessions based on your feedback in thread >>13, which was moved to /sugg/ for being meta.

What is allowed on this board? What is its purpose?
On this board you can discuss and request or give advice regarding NEETism, Hikikomoriism, anxieties and social or mental issues arising from these conditions of living, and things closely related to these topics. If you're content with being a NEET at this stage in your life, that's ok, and you won't get in trouble for saying so. The board's primary focus is self-help and advice regarding these issues. Despite rumors, threads looking for help with suicidal feelings or drug addition are also allowed.

What is not allowed on this board?
* Encouraging others to become NEET.
* Attacking or discouraging others for being NEET.
* Giving or requesting advice on how to enter the NEET lifestyle.
* Encouraging or showcasing drug usage.
* Announcing your planned suicide.
* Helping others to plan or commit suicide.
* Topics not related to the purpose of the board. Such topics will be moved.
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Seisatsu ## Owner 03/10/19 (Sun) 20:18:51 No.5517

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Anonymous 10/09/25 (Thu) 06:34:14 No.9762 [Reply]

I always hear that women are supposedly more emotional than men, but I can't feel emotions. At all. I have absolutely no emotional response to anything. Whether someone is complimenting me, insulting me, or even outright threatening me, I always have the same response: no response whatsoever. I do not feel joy or pleasure, nor do I feel sadness, anger, fear, or anything else. I can't think of a single time when I've ever cried, not counting when I was a newborn. I didn't even feel anything when my own father killed himself in front of me when I was a child.

What is wrong with me?

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Anonymous 10/11/25 (Sat) 03:06:57 No.9785

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/b/ trolled me into gender dysphoria. My impressionable 14 year old mind never stood a chance. Unfathomable ownage.

Anonymous 10/11/25 (Sat) 05:09:28 No.9786

>>9780
i dont care if it's a woman, i care that it's a try hard look-at-me post.

Anonymous 10/11/25 (Sat) 11:17:48 No.9787

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>>9784
buddy what are you even on about i have no idea what you're even saying

what's "42%" mean, anyway?

also once again shes not gonna fuck u bruh

Anonymous 10/11/25 (Sat) 11:27:23 No.9788

>>9762

>Redhead femjak.png

are you guys dense this isnt even a pick me its a shartnegroid samenigggering in the replies for attentions

Anonymous 10/11/25 (Sat) 14:14:52 No.9789

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>>9787
There was a study like 10 years ago (where I think this whole meme started) that was conducted on transgender people that concluded that 41/2% at some point consider or even attempt suicide.

I don't know if the study is legit or the average scaremongering campaign (like the 1 in 5 rape chance for women in college, oddly in about the same year or so)

I think it's something extremely hard to calculate as the transgender population has changed drastically since them and keeps changing at a monstruous rate.

But the posters ITT are taking it too far in both sides, maybe you can meet in the middle? maybe OP is an attention whore and you're also all virgin incel chuds?

I don't know, only time will tell.

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Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 18:59:39 No.9775 [Reply]

I always hear that people here and there struggle with mental illiness but not me, I am a normal guy with no mental problems whatsoever, I have very normal reactions to people praising me or insulting me. I feel like an outcast due to how normal my life is.

I'm an accountant and I work at my dad's insurance company, I play basketball on the weekends and I have a car and I rent an apartment close to my job until I can afford to buy a house, I do my taxes in time and I have a girlfriend and a dog.

What is wrong with me?

Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 19:32:13 No.9777

*thinking*

Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 19:43:17 No.9778

>>9777
nice trips bro

Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 20:45:17 No.9779

well, first, you're here. so you're not that normal.

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Anonymous 10/09/25 (Thu) 21:31:25 No.9769 [Reply]

I turned 30 earlier this year. Birthdays are always highly melancholic for me, as it simply means that I'm one year older and one year closer to dying. However, my 30th birthday is one that I've always especially dreaded. I've always felt like, once I turn 30, I won't be young anymore. I'm truly an adult, whether I feel like one or not. But what does it even mean to be an adult anyways? Quite frankly, I don't want anything to do with what society tells me "adults" are supposed to do. I don't want to get married or have kids. I don't want to be a debt slave and work a job that I hate so that I can spend the rest of my life paying rent to a landlord (or paying off a mortgage). I don't want to partake in the meaningless rat race. I want something more, but I know that there really is nothing more. Life is an endless abyss with no purpose that we were all born to slave away and die in. I really don't know how anyone with a functioning brain can live in this world and not want to kill themselves.

Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 06:34:57 No.9772

i found some pleasure playing the piano, but idk, is just me, tomorrow who knows, maybe i will hate myself once again

Anonymous 10/10/25 (Fri) 08:04:00 No.9773

>>9772

There really isn't anything that I enjoy, to be perfectly honest.

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Anonymous 10/03/25 (Fri) 19:44:14 No.9747 [Reply]

What causes people to become neets? Is it social anxiety, depression or something else i watched the anime welcome to the nhk and it got me interested into neets i myself am not one but i would like to learn i mean no disrespect i feel bad for neets i just wanna know for morbid curiosity

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Anonymous 10/07/25 (Tue) 20:09:28 No.9757

>>9756
I mean… he could be Canadian instead.

Anonymous 10/07/25 (Tue) 20:56:57 No.9758

>>9757

He explicitly said that he was Canadian. Did you all miss the part where he talks about "CAD"?

Anonymous 10/07/25 (Tue) 20:57:21 No.9759

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>>9757
Vancouver had a 19.6% Chinese population in 2021. BC as a whole was 10.5%. Other provinces are lower but it's a running joke to call Canadian's Chinese. I have encountered this phenomenon a number of times.

Anonymous 10/07/25 (Tue) 22:19:53 No.9760

>>9758
CAD

chinese
autism
dollar

Anonymous 10/08/25 (Wed) 12:59:45 No.9761

>>9760
i think this is true and real

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Anonymous 10/04/25 (Sat) 06:33:34 No.9750 [Reply]

What even is fun supposed to feel like? I genuinely cannot think of a single time in my life when I've ever had fun. It's honestly like my brain just isn't wired to feel positive emotions. Nothing is fun. Nothing is enjoyable. Nothing is pleasurable. And, with zero ability to feel joy or pleasure, what reason do I even have to stay alive?

Anonymous 10/04/25 (Sat) 15:05:59 No.9752

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>>9750
It's a whole entire problem that you can't feel positive emotions and you may wanna fix that or not but purpose doesn't need to be tied to fun or enjoyment, not even to happiness.

Find what you're good at.

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Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 11:41:18 No.9724 [Reply]

i got a job at domininjas and the online training sucks

like i get physically exhausted just thinking about it

i mean i want to work to have something to do and to get money but it feels like im getting aged upwards 10 years every minute i spend staring at the course. like the guy on the carousel in something wicked this way comes by ray bradbury

it also really really scares me that this is a glimpse into the standard level of enjoyment i'll be feeling for the rest of my life. work is hell, and i doubt i'll ever find something fun and worth doing that also gets me fulfillment and money. i wish i could study but most major colleges don't like my kind of person very much and i tried going to a shitty backwater one and was tempted to shank the principal so theres that

sks !DMljOvD5IE 09/28/25 (Sun) 14:36:13 No.9732

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Dominoes is not the gold standard of jobs or labor. I had a friend who worked there who said its easily one of the worst jobs he ever had after his friends left the place. I used to have a mindset like you but now I've found a comfortable job I'm okay with for the most part. You have to keep your eyes on potential opportunities and learn some skills while you're at it. If you're in the US and over 24 years old they basically give you free grant money to go to college. Same with if you are on the lower income bracket and you can get free PELL grants. But even without college or trade school, if you work enough and gain experience you can move up to something more comfortable but it is very hard in this job market at the moment. The market is flooded with shitty, dead end jobs that gaslight you into thinking they are worthwhile. Zoomers kind of got the short end of the stick but look for opportunities while you work this job and gain experience. Ideally, just work the job for a year to put on your resume and leave for something better asap. I started out in fast food too, its not something I recommend for anyone but if you can get a cashier role, you'll have money handling to put on your resume as experience which is a huge step to marketing yourself to better employers.

Anonymous 09/28/25 (Sun) 22:34:17 No.9733

>>9732
omg sks haiiiiiiiii

yeah i'm not expecting much but the guy that the government pays to tolerate me because they think im retarded said that he would play danganronpa trigger happy havoc if i stuck to the job for 3 weeks so i really got to do it

it might be marginally less excruciating than what you're describing because im going to be a delivery driver, i already mountain bike and ride my bike around so hopefully it's not too different from that. but i am kind of worried that it won't even do me any good on the resume in the future. honestly between being miserable generally, repping, and having literally no actual friends, it's really hard to parse the idea that i will basically never be happy, like, ever. sopranos_smoking.gif

sks !DMljOvD5IE 10/04/25 (Sat) 01:00:39 No.9749

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>>9733
Honestly, while delivery driver isn't necessarily the most experience filled job, you can basically put on your resume that you have customer service experience and willingness to travel for work. You can also fluff it up a bit and say you have experience driving for a work place environment and you know your way around the town/city. Employers like with you phrase it like that. Hell one of things that got me my current job was experience with DoorDash of all things.

Anonymous 10/04/25 (Sat) 13:35:29 No.9751

>>9749
what is your current job sks????? iwanna know… also which danganronpa character is your favourite

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Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 16:38:57 No.9726 [Reply]

I will never have a job.

I will never move out of my parents' house.

I will never have sex.

I will never have a girlfriend.

I will never have any friends.

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Anonymous 10/01/25 (Wed) 08:35:09 No.9738

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>>9736
i hate most people and have refused to conform to societal standards from a young age.
dropped out of high-school became a NEET and never looked back, i believe humans, especially modern humans ought to strive for comfort since generations of our ancestors died toiling in the sun.
anything more specific you wanted to know?

Anonymous 10/01/25 (Wed) 14:54:15 No.9739

>>9738
i meant how youre coping with being jobless lol

Anonymous 10/02/25 (Thu) 04:51:32 No.9740

>>9739
The only people that cope are wage slaves. Imagine having to work to be able to survive lmao.

Anonymous 10/02/25 (Thu) 15:22:30 No.9741

>>9740
>>9739
It's okay to be a NEET and it's okay to be a wageslave, let each other live.

Anonymous 10/02/25 (Thu) 19:39:02 No.9742

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>>9739
with NEETbux.
>>9740
without wagies id have to work, so im thankful for them.

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Russia Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 19:45:49 No.9728 [Reply]

I was thinking of getting a new start in life and actually being happy so im thinking of moving to russia i have some money saved up should i do it?

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 20:53:37 No.9730

Not sure about just how is an average American getting a visa to go to Russia (maybe through China?) legally and without getting trafficked / deployed to the SMO and slaughtered like a dog. Whoever is organizing for you is more than likely scamming you.

Assuming this is not outright ragebait (which it likely is), I still wouldn't go. Expect to work a lot for barely surviving anywhere (Siberia is a fucking hellscape btw), and I value my basic human freedoms (as I am a very outspoken person)

There is a better option for almost any circumstance. There are much better Slavic countries with gorgeous nature you can build your own little life in. If extremely rural life is what you desire, try Japan, Thailand, or any Asian country with dying elderly population. Even if you are legal enemies with the US, there are still far better countries to exile to.

Anonymous 09/27/25 (Sat) 23:29:41 No.9731

>>9730
finland too also very good, come to finland… ho ho ho

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