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/rec/ - Ex-NEET / Recovery

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New board for recovering NEETs and Ex-NEETs, and people with school/work/reintegration issues: Ex-NEET / Recovery

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 No.67

For five years I've been slowly decaying: I've lost my health, dropped University, twice, and my relationships with my family is in shatters. Also what bothers me is that people I knew (I don't have any contacts left) now have good jobs, some of them their own families, while I still simply just run away from all problems I encounter.

I tried to do something with it so many times, but it never really worked out. I'm not sure whether anything can be done now, but I can try one more time.

To change the pace I will go to a local library tomorrow, so I can be closer to other people, will spend some time learning (or doing) something actually useful and will try to build up courage to make up with my family.

 No.68

>>67
Right now is probably not the best time to go out, with the virus and everything. I am cheering you on though. Things will turn out ok.

 No.69

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>>68
Yes, you are right, however it just can't go on like this. I skipped the library today exactly because of this, and now the moon is out and I haven't done anything useful, again. So maybe I can at least go to a nearby park? We don't have a mandatory quarantine, and I don't contact with other people to begin with, so it shouldn't really matter in the end.

I did however read these 3 wonderful papers, they were easy to follow, and it was sooo enjoyable - but it's not what I should have been doing! That's the problem.
https://simonmar.github.io/bib/papers/ext-exceptions.pdf
http://www.cs.ru.nl/~W.Swierstra/Publications/DataTypesALaCarte.pdf
https://research.microsoft.com/en-us/um/people/simonpj/papers/marktoberdorf/mark.pdf

I will try again tomorrow!

 No.70

>>69
Good to hear, just be sure to stay safe and healthy. You probably won't be happy if you're in the hospital with sickness.

 No.71

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It was a little bit better today. I managed to start my project - I want to write a simple torrent tracker, so when I finally try to apply for a job I can show at least something.
And writing code turned out to be really hard - you just can't compare it to reading papers or books.
>>70
Thank you, yes, you are right, especially now.
Stay safe too.

 No.72

Well the library isn't going to help you…

 No.77

>>72
Going out and doing anything could help OP, even if it's just a few interactions with library workers or random people. I find my confidence is like a snowball that builds up with repeated positive social experiences.

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>>77
Thank you.

My project is underway, though it is still a total mess. I would try to finish it by the end of this month and try to find a job afterwards. It's been quite hard so far, but at least I'm making progress.



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