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/rec/ - Ex-NEET / Recovery

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 No.59

there's this girl I'm seeing that's 10 years older than me. she's the first girl I've made out and fondled with. she's alright, and I like her, but (I suppose this comes with our rather significant age difference) she's too forward and horny all the time and it makes me feel uncomfortable. I ain't even ready to have sex yet

where and how can I meet girls *my* age (this is what I'd wager marked our differences) that are reserved, quiet and introverted like me? I'm into manga, videogames and writing, not sure if it matters

I don't even know how to deal with women. getting a chance with this girl was mostly pure luck. we hardly knew each other, flirted a little bit on social media and then we met up and stuff. since it's not going as smoothly as I expect, I think trying other methods would be a good idea
some friends suggested clubbing after this whole pandemic crap ends, but it's not really my scene

 No.60

>some friends suggested clubbing after this whole pandemic crap ends, but it's not really my scene
now that I think about it, finding another spergy girl like me sitting in a corner because that ain't her scene either would be pretty rad

 No.61

>>59
Try an anime convention. Lots of introverted people of both genders at those things that share your interest. Thing is, when everyone is introverted, one of you will have to exit their comfort zone to make initial contact. But, people at those places are generally very willing to make friends if you go talk to them; if they weren't interested in meeting people they wouldn't go to a convention.

 No.62

>>61
that's a great idea. although the cons I've been to haven't been great, gotta say. plus my country is quarantined, so for now they're not an option

I've read some internet resources and they say that one of the best ways to hookup with other introverts is online, but it's different from what I imagined
to be clear I'm not looking for sex, just affection and companionship
okcupid looks allright but there doesn't seem to be much people enrolled on it, and their users are not very active
tinder despite having shitloads of users, as I see it, encourages vapidness and superficiality
a zoomer friend suggested using instagram, but it sounds sub-par as a dating platform and I believe suffers from the same problem as tinder

 No.63

>>62
To be fair, there are no options while you're quarantined, unless you want to break quarantine. But there's a silver lining, and that is that all of those online platforms like OkCupid and Tinder are going to filled with people as bored and starved for affection as you are, whose only outlet is the Internet now. It should be easier to start conversations and get replies. If you can get past the usual barriers and start online friendships with a few people in your area, then when quarantine is finally over you will be both eager to meet up. So, I'd suggest that you start putting effort into those platforms while they're still in bonus stage.

 No.75

Fuck her in the ass.
Also who cares about her being ten years older.
You complain about her being too horny?
Fuck that

 No.76

>>75
Not everyone has the sex drive of a 16 year old.

 No.91

>>76
I still do

 No.92

Have you tried talk to her about it? That's how fully capable adults work out relationships I'm told. I wouldn't know myself but it looks like it works, like, 50% of the time.

 No.93

>>92
agree with you anon. if op is being really romantic with her already he should probably just tell her (gently) that he'd like to wait a little bit. good luck op

 No.231

>>59
I lost my virginity to a women in her early-mid 30s when I was 21. Would not recommend, wish I had waited a year until I found my current partner who is also in her early 20s and who I actually love. This said, if it happens it's not the end of the world. Intimacy with someone you really love will always be on another level than any mere infatuation.

 No.238

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>>59
>too forward and horny all the time
>10 years older than you
tbh, I think she is using you. Tinder or just going to pubs and other social areas will help you find someone your age easily

 No.258

You sound like a complete waste of time for her tbh. Have you tried a defibrillator? That thing in your chest still ticking?

 No.269

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>clubbing

what fucking board am i on

what fucking website am i on

 No.270

>>269
websites aren't an extension of yourself

 No.272

>>269
I mean it is the "Ex-NEET" board

 No.274

>>272
yeah but come the fuck on dude

 No.279

>>274
Nobody's inviting you to go to a club, don't worry.

 No.280

>>279
レディット帰れ

 No.281

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>>274
Wanna go to a club anon? I have some VIP invites

 No.282

>>281
Fuck no, the music is shit and the alcohol is expensive as shit, at least where I live. Now a rave, that's different.

 No.283

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>>280
>2011+10
>still obsessed with reddit

 No.284

>>282
>Now a rave, that's different.
Oh shit! Thanks for giving me a way to protect myself if anyone tries to invite me out. What if someone invites me out, they say club, but they mean affordable bar that's a club on other days of the week. I can't imagine what it would be like to being tricked into enjoying myself.

Anyway, let's not let the thread derail too much.

 No.285

>>274
maybe it's one of those success stories everyone talks about

 No.289

>>283
who are you quoting mister redditor sir?

 No.290

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>>282
>How dare you go to a shitty dance shithole for normies
>Goes to shitty dance shithole for normies with a cool name

 No.291

>>59
nigga you got groomed



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