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Is there an effective way to deal with harassment?

I got myself into a bad situation on social media, and it's making me want to isolate, or just fall back on old habits.


Just leave. Take a break, temporarily deactivate your account or just don't log on. Social Media is fleeting, in a months time people probably won't care enough to harass you, specially if you don't respond.


Good advice. Think I'll take a break for now. That's what I've been doing for the past few days- I'd rather not deactivate as that would be giving them something else to use


Fair enough, hope things look up for you when you return, whoever you are.


Taking a break is good advice. Also, if someone is spreading false info on you, you should correct it as soon as possible.


Take a break from social media or avoid using it as a whole as most of the times they're full of people that are there to reinforce their ideals rather than having a nice, constructive discussion. Remove your accounts and keep a low profile and do something else in the meantime. Play some game, read some book or whatever thing u like but don't spend your time arguing with those people, the only reason to reply is when they throw some very bad (and most likely) false accusations towards you.

Basically, try to find comfort in something more refined and don't ruminate over it, you aren't a celebrity or something like that so it's safe to say that you being harrassed is something that won't last forever; usually people who spend their time like this tend to move from drama to drama faster so they will eventually forget about it to prioritize new dramas, most of those people are like this so they can feel better about themselves. I hope this will help you and I hope things will get better for you!


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Thank you for the suggestions. I've been spending less time on the computer and going outside more. Still in the trenches, but it's not as bad as it was last month

Would it be alright if I went into more detail about what happened? Without mentioning specifics- I'm more comfortable with talking about the situation now


The floor is yours.


The character in your images is really cool. Where are they from?


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Its koishi from touhou


that character is qt.
i should learn to draw tbh, i want to draw something like that.


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Touhou. The artist is Sentaku-sen on pixiv. He made a series called Koishi Komeiji's Heart Throbbing Adventure, which features Koishi as the main character and starts out with rough drawings. The art improves during later episodes:


Art takes a lot of practice, but it can be a fun hobby to get into.


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I'll try to summarize this without getting into specifics.

There's a fandom I'm a part of which has users dictating content that gets made. Anti-types from places like tumblr. Back in March, a fan wrote an analysis of a character from games in the series, which garnered a negative reaction. It was well done- a thoroughly fascinating read, but people didn't see it that way. The anti crowd targeted this person, looking into their personal works for information to use against them and creating memes about it, jokes that were quickly run into the ground. Their response was to make a video essay further explaining their viewpoints/the drama without attacking anyone. It was an hour long, but didn't feel like it- the whole thing made me view the series in a way I had never considered before, and they included humor to keep things lighthearted. However, people didn't bother to watch, harassing them further.

I've been there before, with others looking down on me for creating something they dislike, so I made a post in support of the author. Detractors began attacking me next, and the user who was targeted didn't respond. This will sound like a foolish move, but I tried something else afterwards: creating a comic to sort of defuse everything, which seemed to work. People stopped after that. I didn't get as many responses, but because of what went down I'm considering leaving social media entirely, or just avoiding the fandom.

So that's what happened. I know it's stupid to care so much. The whole situation is pretty ridiculous. This happened just as I was dealing with personal issues in real life, and it feels like everything's getting worse.


I would not have cared, absolutely. Just kept on posting whatever i want, if you don't use your real identity then whats the harm? more fame for you.


Give them no attention, but never forget.

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