/n/ - NEET

Just go to okcupid, it’s super easy to find men who want physical contact there.

I didn't go into enough detail, sorry. I am looking for a furry boyfriend

I'd like a boyfriend as well, more than anything, but I know it'll never happen. I have nothing to offer anyone.

>>14622
I personally recommend analyzing what actions are helpful in getting a boyfriend, then taking those actions.

This is a large reason why I am in college to begin with.

>>14633

I don't know if I can. I know what I need to do, but I'm so weak and atrophied that I can barely do anything, even with lots of medication. I've tried to get better, but I get overwhelmed so easily that even simple tasks are beyond my capacity.

Additionally, I never have any energy, even if I take stimulants. I get tired and stressed out just thinking about doing things, let alone actually doing them. I don't know what's wrong with me. Nothing I've tried seems to help. I know I'm just making excuses, I'm sorry.

>>14633
Here is a chart I have made to maybe better illustrate my thought process. It starts with the important question, "What are my goals in life?" Maybe this chart will be useful to anyone reading this post.

>>14635
You can make a chart like this for yourself too :)

>>14634
I used to have a severe case of this problem. I was a NEET for almost 2 years straight. Over 2 years total.

Eventually, I started believing that if I did not take action, I would not get a boyfriend, and I would not be happy. So, I took action. I think the key factor for me was really believing that I had a reason to do the things I needed to do, or some sort of goal.

Thank you for your post. This is something that I had not thought about in as much detail as I needed to to compose this message.

>>14635

That's a nice chart, thank you for sharing. I should make one for myself. It might help to visualize what I need to do rather than just think about it.

>>14637

I've been NEET since I was 15. I'm 25 now. I think it might be too late for me to change. I've grown so accustomed to NEET life that I don't know anything else.

>>14639
25 is still VERY young. You've got all the time in the world to change. It's never too late, I promise.

>>14652
Youre exagurating a bit, but yes 25 isnt all that late too change.
And yes im sure you can change if you want to, humans are very adaptable creatures, you jsut need a good entry.