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Insecurity

>>12027
This

Also, when people are disgusted by something they automatically feel disgust towards anything else affiliated with it… although I suppose that's more of a observation that an actual reason…

I don't think people feel comfortable discussing what turns them on. You'd be called a pervert regardless of your fetishes.

>>12026
I hate when people ask questions like this. What you like reflects you as a person. Everyone has an idea of the types of people they like, and the types of people they don't like. I've even seen people ask this question, when they regularly boast such things around and wonder why they get shitted on. I also don't get if your issue is that people don't like you for being into things like guro or if you want someone to suck your dick and be your best buddy for liking it. Make up your damn mind. Disregard the first two posts ITT, because it is you who is currently displaying insecurity and naivety.

>wanting to be a girl
mfw


>i can't help that i like what i ilike
You definitely can choose to continue doing and consuming what you think you like, thereby reinforcing your like. Or you can stop, and find something else to take it's place.
You have the fantastic human ability to look towards the future and take steps to change, even if it's not immediately instinctually satisfying.

Insecure people use hate to assert control over others and manipulate them into doing their bidding.

It is always about fear. And in this case it is the fear of change. Because a new concept, an idea or just plain topics that deviate from the norm change the status quo and are a potential risk. It might weaken the group.
People have to leave their comfort zone and have to deal with something they might not know much about…
Our human brain is designed to repress and to depend thus creating a tribe that is obedient and aming for the same goals.

If you want to be a girl then I don't see what's stopping you

>>12053
This. We science now.

>i can't help that i like what i ilike

All I can really say is that, if you like something sure, but you choose to express it openly in areas where there may be disgust involved. By choosing to be open about it, there are consequences to actions such as disgust. It's easier to expect it and accept that such things may potentially happen rather than beating onesself up and be burned for a nonexistent ideal that no one will react badly to an abnormal fetish.

I guess what I am mostly asking is: What are you looking for when you talk about these fetishes with people or your desire to be a girl? What are you expecting and are those expectations reasonable?